View Full Version : Tough times... Really tough :'(
the dude
June 18th, 2010, 01:42 AM
The thing is... Me and my girlfriend are really really close, really serious relationship. We love each other a lot. She's going to be gone for 2 weeks straight, and I'm moving to a completely different state, and won't be able to see her. :'( I'm so depressed, I don't even want to get out of bed. I just feel like dying, or disappear. I don't want to live anymore, my life is just... horrid. I can't do anything about the move, and we're going to miss each other a lot when I move, and I just feel like killing myself. I just want to escape from this pain... Life is a cruel, sour bitch that I just want to leave. I don't care where I go, but I just want to leave. :'(
nick
June 18th, 2010, 03:06 AM
Dont just give up on life. Sure its going to be tough for a while, but either you can keep in touch and maybe meet up when you can, or you will need time to move on. Either way there will be plenty more love for you in the future and plenty of good things yet to come. If you ever feel alone and need someone to talk too you can talk to me if it helps.
Mike321
June 18th, 2010, 02:08 PM
Dont give up, there are alot of times in your life when things are going to be really tough.
As Nick said, maybe you can keep in touch and meet up, depending on how far your moving obviusly.
Your still young there is plenty of time for other loves, but I know its not going to be easy moving away but its one of those things you have no control over and I can understand how it upsets you.
IF you need to talk, you can PM me
DragonflyBec
June 20th, 2010, 07:24 AM
There is a strong possibility your GF is feeling the same way; Discuss and chat to her about how your feeling; Ask how she is feeling. Discuss all possibilities of holidays and catch-ups together. Maybe in a year or so (possibly longer) your able to live together if the relationship is strong and fulfilled. If you both feel differently, there will be a way to move on (yes it'll take time and hardship). Join a sport and meet new people when you move to this new state. Don't let her go completely if you have no other option of moving on; because this relationship meant a lot to you and you will want to take the memories along with you through out your life. Smile with the memories of her; don't let the feeling drift you into a small enclosed space. tell her your feelings no matter how hard it is. She'll help you.
There are many people on here who I'm sure will be willing to help and guide you; if you need someone to talk to PM me.
CaliKid24
June 20th, 2010, 07:49 AM
Don't worry dude. Ur going to get through it. There's nothing u can do about the move so make the best of the situation. U can still keep in touch!
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