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sassyfox
June 18th, 2010, 12:18 AM
I absoltely love eating other girls out, everything about it, I also love a lot of other things about lesbian sex(I wont get into it here) and I've slept with one guy, the orgasm was great and everything else was good but I have not one bit of desire to sleep with a guy again. But I love to try and hookup with other girls and would never turn down an oppurtunity to sleep with another girl, Im also way more sexually aroused by women. But I still feel like Im straight, im very feminine love doing girly stuff and hate doing guy stuff. Could I still be straight, even though I exclusivly want to have sex with girls?

myskias
June 18th, 2010, 12:45 AM
haha your sexuality seems like your a lesbian. but not all lesbian are manly and beastly girls! im gay and i act straight. people think im straight until i tell them im gay. its just your personality to be a girl, but your sexuality seems lesbian to me. but i dont see why that would be such a big deal anyways. you seem like a happy person to begin with :)

Haydzzz
June 18th, 2010, 01:51 AM
haha u kinda seem lesbiian from that not that there is anything wrong with that. u could be bisexual.

chrissm
June 18th, 2010, 02:33 AM
There's nothing to say that a gay or bi girl cant be feminine, there's no reason why anyone else should be able to guess from your manner, how you dress or behave. It sounds unlikely that you are straight, but the key question is not so much who you fancy sex with at the moment but who you could fall in love with and want perhaps to live together with.

DeEnd
June 18th, 2010, 11:24 AM
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josh93
June 19th, 2010, 06:06 PM
Sligth chance of you being str8 it sounds like your more lesbian.

thepieman
June 21st, 2010, 03:27 PM
Yeah it sounds to me like you're lesbian. You don't have to be butch to be lesbian, like not all gay guys are camp. There's nothing wrong with it, and once you're comfortable with it you'll be fine.

CaptainObvious
June 21st, 2010, 03:38 PM
I don't understand how this concept is so hard to handle for people, but let's clear it up very simply:

Sexuality is about which gender(s) you are sexually attracted to. No, it doesn't matter who you're "emotionally" attracted to; it doesn't matter if you "want to have a family"; it doesn't matter if you're the most stereotypically straight acting person in the world. The only thing that matters is which gender arouses you.

So in this case, you're a lesbian. Exclusively aroused by girls = lesbian, end of story.

Ali222
June 24th, 2010, 01:59 PM
sounds like youre one of those HOT lesbians but you could be just going through a phase

Ryhanna
June 24th, 2010, 08:53 PM
Sexuality and personality aren't the same thing.

The girliest guy in the world could be straight. :)

ShatteredWings
June 24th, 2010, 08:58 PM
So you basically exclusively sleep with girls, and don't seem to like guys that way.

Sorry hun, but that ain't straight.
There are pleeentty of feminine lesbians. :rolleyes:

punkjake
June 24th, 2010, 09:45 PM
You seem lesbian,but i think you have to be in love with someone more or less to be that sexuality