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Mattriver
June 17th, 2010, 10:02 PM
I'm fourteen years old and tonight I was masturbating and had my dick out, he walked in, saw, walked out. He walked back in a little later and said, "Don't have any porn on the computer." I said "Okay." And he left.
I'm so worried. I'm embarressed and I don't know what to do....I'm afraid he'll tell my mom and I'm freaking out...
Help? Please?

bidude94
June 17th, 2010, 10:08 PM
Well ok ok ok, first calm down and breath, we'll get through this, ok the first thing you'll do is delete ur browsing history so that no porn was saved, then "if" he does tell your mom, im pretty sure she'll understand, ur a teenage boy it happens, ur dad didn't say anything because he knows he did it when he was a teen to. Calm down you have nothing to worry about. its perfectly normal, you'll be fine, hope that helped

zcornett
June 17th, 2010, 10:14 PM
Agree with bidude94. Your dad is a guy, and he was a teenager once too. He knows all about jacking off and watching porn as he did it when he was your age. I don't think he will tell your mom, but even if he does then she will understand because she was around teenaged boys when she was younger. If you have anymore questions or anything happens PM me and i'll try to help.
-Z

ror.
June 17th, 2010, 10:48 PM
dont worry i dont think he'll tell ur mum

Velocaraptor
June 17th, 2010, 11:22 PM
I don't think you should be worried at all, because I'm sure your dad did it at that age too, and might still do it. Just try to put it behind you and get on with your daily life.(:

waffleguy
June 17th, 2010, 11:24 PM
He probably didn't tell your mom :) and he probably understands as well what it's like to have hormones. if in doubt, you could always talk to him in private or something.

jesusfreak77
June 17th, 2010, 11:27 PM
Just relaxe, your dad prob. went through the same thing with his dad...so dont worry about it:) its completely normal. One time, my dad's gf walked in on me with every thing showing! its normal to feel embaressed, escpecially with somthing taboo as masturbation:)

matt0310
June 18th, 2010, 01:33 AM
statistics show your dad does it to so i wouldn't be to worried about it he and your mom probably know you jo already anyway

Haydzzz
June 18th, 2010, 01:35 AM
Mate he most likely wont tell ur mum, its a pretty normal thing for guys to do and no doubt ur dad probs does as well. It was probs just as weird for him as well.

imcool_17
June 18th, 2010, 01:37 AM
don't worry. he's jacked off more than you have but now that he has a wife he probably doesn't do it AS MUCH but even if he does tell your mom she probably won't even talkabout it to you bcuz she can't jackoff with what she doesn't have. but dude your fine. don't worry about it

chrissm
June 18th, 2010, 02:38 AM
Its obviously embarassing to have been walked in on but, to be honest, your dad's reaction seems pretty calm and cool. All parents, both mums and dads, know that boys masturbate. Your dad might or might not tell your mum, it doesnt matter anyway, she will assume you wank and not care. Shocking thing for you to think about, you dad will certainly have done it and probably still does, and your mum may well have masturbated too. Its just a normal part of life.

ryker
June 18th, 2010, 02:41 AM
Just for the next time, lock the door if possible

teenboy93
June 18th, 2010, 08:00 AM
your a teenage boy with hormones raging every dad expects that some point in their sons lives im sure

LordOfTheToaster
June 18th, 2010, 09:59 AM
He won't tell your mom. He knows just what you're feeling. And, he probably said no porn on the computer because he doesn't want it to get viruses. You might want to invest in some magazines instead. :D

LordOfTheToaster
June 18th, 2010, 10:01 AM
Shocking thing for you to think about, you dad will certainly have done it and probably still does, and your mum may well have masturbated too. Its just a normal part of life.

Uggh... now I have the image of my mom doing that burned into my head...feeling...dizzy. :P

DeEnd
June 18th, 2010, 11:36 AM
I agree with the posters above. He already "followed up with you" by coming in and telling you not to have any porn on the computer. That was his concern, not that you were masturbating, not that you were looking at porn, etc. Don't worry. It's over.

impact_75
June 18th, 2010, 01:31 PM
Most of the time, dads can be really cool about the situation since they have done the same thing in the past when they were our age. So with the way u just told is, I wouldn't worry cause he won't tell ur mom.:)

Texasdude3241
June 18th, 2010, 01:35 PM
Don't worry about it. Your dad masterbated when he was your age so I'm sure he understands and has no problem with it.

Mattriver
June 18th, 2010, 02:25 PM
Thanks everyone for all the replies.

I've been trying to get a lock for my door, it's broken...so yeah...

My mom didn't say anything as she was driving me to school so I guess he didn't tell her.

My dad hasn't said anything today, so I guess he just let it go.

nicetomeetyou
June 18th, 2010, 03:43 PM
You will be fine, dont worry at all. Almost everyone masturbates, especially males, its due to having such a high sex drive, and of course raging hormones. Dont worry about your Dad saying anything, i know its not nice to think about, but he probably did/ does masturbate aswell.

:-)

phill1
June 18th, 2010, 05:33 PM
Don't worry about it. Your dad masterbated when he was your age so I'm sure he understands

seanlwilson
June 18th, 2010, 05:49 PM
i can tell you your dad was fine with it. He knows u r a guy and at that age the hormones rage alot. He did it when he was your age. my brother and i actually walked in on our day when we were kids before we knew what masturbating was all about. he was not alarmed by it . I am sure your dad was not alarmed by walking in on you. its a guy thing so he probably won't tell your mom. but if he does relax, its a natural human function. she knows that too.

Errr
September 2nd, 2010, 12:22 PM
what dad says that? If it was my kid i would be like " Okay son, its time for the talk.....the talk of what some good sites are :D.." lol idk maybe thats just me, but i dont want my kid feeling guilty to whats normal

johny88
September 2nd, 2010, 12:35 PM
Dont talk about it I dot think he will. About the porn, I think he only didnt want spam and viruses there.

Malcolm Tucker
September 2nd, 2010, 12:51 PM
Please, don't bump threads. Have a look at the date of the last post before posting yours.

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