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Aceso
June 15th, 2010, 07:50 PM
I know there are many different reasons as to why people do it. I for one, do it as a distraction, to distract myself from everything else and I do it because when things are bad, there is one thing I can controll.
Why do you cut? Here are a few reasons I found listed:

Some Common Reasons Why People Cut Themselves

They find it soothing:
To feel pain on the outside instead of the inside
To cope with feelings
To express anger towards themselves
To feel alive and real


A way of communicating what they can't say with words:
To tell people they need help
To get people's attention
To tell people they should be in hospital

An attempt to get people to react to their actions:
To get people to care for them
To make other people feel guilty
To drive people away
To get away from stress and responsibility
To manipulate situations or people

Triggering Events Reported by Young Adults Who Self-Injure:

Being rejected by someone who is important to them
Being blamed for something over which they had no control
Feeling inadequate
Being "wrong" in some way

Source: http://www.essortment.com/articles/self-injury_100006.htm

MadManWithaBox
June 15th, 2010, 07:56 PM
Well that, what you said. Another a few other reasons.

Mike321
June 16th, 2010, 01:15 AM
Mainly to express anger towards myself, or sometime to punish myself if I think I've done something wrong.
There are a few others but those are the main ones I think

starrburst
June 16th, 2010, 01:19 AM
I cut for all diffrent reasons, which is why i cut more than most people. If anyone wants advice or just to chat about SHing pm me.

natt
June 16th, 2010, 10:26 AM
i do it to feel pain when im numb, or when the pain takes me over and i can't breahe to help me focus, it reaally is an addiction and thats why to
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Secret_Keiko
June 16th, 2010, 10:08 PM
I do it to release the emotions I can't voice. But I only do it for myself, and never let anyone know.
I also do it because I feel the need to after what I've gone through in the past, and also because really, I can't stop.
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xgeekyrocksx
June 17th, 2010, 10:30 AM
I do it because it makes me feel in control, although really i know im not.
When im sad i kind of feel like im reflecting the pain inside to my cuts...does that make sence?...
i guess i've grown to like it in a strange way, like i cant imagine myself with out the cuts and scars and things...

Aceso
June 17th, 2010, 11:21 AM
I do it because it makes me feel in control, although really i know im not.
When im sad i kind of feel like im reflecting the pain inside to my cuts...does that make sence?...
i guess i've grown to like it in a strange way, like i cant imagine myself with out the cuts and scars and things...

Yeah That makes sence :) They are really interesting reasons, but I agree that I cant imagine myself without it :)