Cheater :'(

[pixie1234]

i was with this guy for two weeks and then we split cos he had aload of stuff going on at home and he couldnt deal with a relationship.

we got together a week ago yesterday and i found out that my so called best mate got him drunk today to get some action from him. he accepted the drink and she stayed sober whilst he was absolutly pissed. she then got him to finger her and do other things to her and immediatly he realised what he did and called me up and told me.

i hate her but i love him i dont see what he did as wrong as she made him. what do i do? he is so ashamed he wont even speak to me :'(

[Ryhanna]

Don't people just do the worst things when they're drunk?? lol

I think it's really good that he told you, he obviously cares about you a LOT - most guys would be too scared to tell you...

I suggest maybe give it a little bit of time, then try talking to him and telling him that you forgive him.

[love_linds]

i dont think you should be to upset at your boyfriend, i mean maybe a little but he obviously respects your relationship because he told you. you should talk to him about it and make sure that he will never do anything lik it again. and also he needs to understand that things arnt going to be the same, right away. it will take some time.

now, about your friend. thats just wrong.. the fact that she knew you guys were together and did that just to take advantage of him, doesnt make her a true friend at all.

[Sith Lord 13]

Tell him you forgive him. He made a mistake and that while you're not happy, you understand that mistakes happen.

At least, that's what I would do. If he does it repeatedly, then you might have an issue, but people make mistakes, especially while drunk.

[pixie1234]

heyy sorry havent been online recently update on situation.

fuck him and fuck her! he wanted too, he said he knew it was gonna happen when he was sober and that he didnt regret a thing! ffs i had enough of guys atm no more till GCSE years are over!! yea right lol :L but seriously not for a long time

he also told me he never really liked me that much either and he blames me for the whole school knowing even though it was all down to him he told the wrong people i told noone till half the school knew.

im better off without him

thankyou everyone who has posted really appriciatted xxx

[Lovely Fox]

dump the friend and keep the boy. He cares, she doesn't. It's as simple as that.

[pixie1234]

He don't care though that's why it's relationship over and a punch in the face if that skett comes near me... Not violont at all lol xx

[Fiending_the_freedom]

At least you only dated for two weeks, so skrew him.

[pixie1234]

yeahh tbh im over him, love him but over the relationship i dont need a guy like that! xx