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GiZzLe
June 15th, 2010, 05:06 AM
Well, I just recently broke up with a guy(Hector), because I got tired of him. He was just wanted "IT" too much and I just wanted to slow things down and he didn't understand. Also I found out that he was cheating on me again. This was his second chance.... Well to the subject, our friend Efren (both my ex, my bestfriends erica's ex and my friend) had been helpin me out a lot with the problems between Hector and I. Efren started texting me the a few weeks ago, and he told me that he lliked me. Well I had liked him too we both have feelings for each other, so we started talking. Last Sat. we were both at a house party and we were also spending the night, well we were just supposed to kiss and we wound up doin just more than that. Efren and I both realized what we had done that it was wrong because of me being with Hector and also Efren being bestfriends with him. Well the next day I broke up with Hector,I gave him the reasons why I wanted to break up, but I didnt have the heart to tell him what I had done the night before with "our" bestfriend Efren. Efren really has a lot of feelings for me and I have a buch of feelings for him!!!We're basically together now, we just haven't haven't made it official yet...It's sort of what they call that "Love triangle" I'm really confused we really like each other. I'm just worried about my bestfriend erica she fell hard for him and Hector fell hard for me... I feel like I did them very wrong, what should I do about the whole situation?? Please help ASAPL

Contra
June 15th, 2010, 08:01 AM
I don't think Hector deserves you, because he cheated on you twice and he was hurrying your relationship too much. So you shouldn't worry about him, you moved on, he has to move on too.

You should talk to Erica to see if she's okay with your relationship with Efren, then you can come to terms with it.

Good luck! :)

GiZzLe
June 15th, 2010, 01:35 PM
Thanks :)

imcool_17
June 19th, 2010, 11:23 AM
you honestly can't stop love, i should know bcuz im going out with the drummer in band's ex girlfriend and we're good friends. you probably just need to talk to both of them and see what they say. maybe you and efren should sit down and settle everything and see what happens. don't mention what you and efren did yet bcuz its too soon, but just try to settle everything.

Daniel_
June 22nd, 2010, 12:24 AM
That is so confusing... Sorry, but I just couldn't follow along.

Anyway, if this Hector guy cheated on you, you shoulda called it quits the first time. I mean trust in a relationship is good, and second chances are a virtue, but when it comes to cheating, theres no such thing as a second chance.