View Full Version : My boyfriend wants me to use tounge?
OnTheFritz
June 15th, 2010, 12:51 AM
My boyfriend wants me to use tounge when we makeout but I just dont feel comfortable with it and I dont really like it when he does it either.
What is a way to tell him that I dont like it without him thinking he did something wrong?
Its not that I dont like kissing him its just....well he has a big tounge and its a little uncomfortable if you get what I mean.
brennaluvv
June 15th, 2010, 04:08 AM
If you just tell him that you're uncomfortable with that, I'm sure he'll understand and just return to the standard kissing. If I were you, I'd say, "I'm not really ready to move onto the tongue yet, it feels a little awkward right now. In case you were wondering, it's not you, I promise. I'm just not comfortable with this yet. Can we please respect that?" (Of course, word it how you like.) If he doesn't respect that, then maybe he isn't the right guy for you. Good luck! ^.^
charlie3322
June 15th, 2010, 01:31 PM
im a guy. yes i shouldnt post here but hey im gay and i had that same problem a year ago ^.^ and i just asked if we could take it easy on the tongue and he respected me and we went back to the norm of kissing
misery_business
June 15th, 2010, 01:34 PM
You don't have to it if you don't want to pls he can't make you.
If you don't want to do it just tell him and if he really likes you he wouldn't mind and he will understand.
:) good luck x
OnTheFritz
June 17th, 2010, 04:02 AM
Thanks guys I told him and he understands!
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