How do I do this?

[DarkWingedAngel]

Ok so my gf is les, she is dating me because im a "girl". I love her lots and I want her to know im trans, how do I do this without her breaking it off with me. I mean she means alot to me and I feel she has the right to know. How do I tell her? Like what are some things I should start off with?
I mean I dress like a guy, and all my friends know.

[Muscleteen92]

First of all u gotta let her know how much she means to u. Then just be str8 up with her and tell her. But she really needs to kno how much u care about her

[DarkWingedAngel]

Anyone else wanna answer too.

[nick]

If your girlfriend truely loves you then she loves you as a person and that shouldnt change. The fact that you dress like a guy and keep your hair short means it may not come as a complete surprise to her although I cant promise that or that she might not be shocked at first.

So yes, there is risk involved, but I think you are right to say that she needs to know. If its something you mean to go through with then she would have to find out sooner or later anyway. Really I dont think there's an easy way, so sometime just sit down together, say there's something that you need to tell her, that you love her very much and hope she will still love you, then just tell her. Good luck.

[ackmedsgirl666]

i think that if you truly love her like you say u do then u should tell her
its the best you can really do. take her aside and explain to her or write her a note telling her your situation or you can always go with the alternative( don't tell her at all)
i hope this has been of some help to you

[TrAnSMaN09]

Hey Hun, Im Glad You Told Me, <3 It Was Fun Too

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