i think shes cheating.

[Mitch14]

ya, i thinks she cheating. but she says she loves me. Im in love with her. but on friday we were cuddling, and she kept texting a guy that likes her and was all flirty with him. and shes been reallly quite latley... am i just paranoid? or should i be worried?

[soccer8]

well confront her with it but dont be mean about it just tell her how you feel and your concern if she really loves you shell tell you the truth

[Jufjufjuf]

Me being paranoid and all sees this as a crap situation xD

well confront her with it but dont be mean about it just tell her how you feel and your concern if she really loves you shell tell you the truth

Well yes, if she loves you truly and not the other guy she will tell you she loves you. But if she doesn't love you she'll lie to you and tell you she loves you.

Sorry for not helping, I'm just stating the possibilities.

[Mitch14]

i talked to her about it. she said shes not. but i know she likes lotsa other guys, and she knows i know. and she knows i hate it. she has had a big crush on one of the guys in my class for a while, and shes saying that shes tryin to forget him. but i know its not working. i love her, and she says she loves me, but im notsure if i believe her fully. she is all flirty with other guys and she knows i hate it. what do i do??

[dhjgfdgrrr]

talk to her!

[iamniokekun]

For the record, I think "love" is a term that gets thrown around a lot. If she really, truly, absolutely loved you, then she wouldn't cheat on you.

According to you, you believe she loves you - therefore she would not cheat on you. Just keep in mind that it's a normal thing for men and women to do - be flirty with others.

[alexrock23]

think confronting your girlfriend and being upfront with your feelings is the best way to sort things out. You may want to explain how you feel and ask your girlfriend how she feels about the situation.One thing to keep in mind when talking about cheating, especially when you’re not sure if it’s true, is to avoid sounding like you’re making an accusation. For instance, instead of saying “You’re cheating on me, aren’t you?” you can say something like, “I’ve got this funny feeling. I hope it’s not true.”

[Haydzzz]

You really just need to talk to her. explain how u feel and if she doesnt try and fix it maybe its best to end it before u get hurt.

[Paladino]

Your like me, my gf was talkin to a guy she used to go out with through msn and he still likes her but they finished like last november but anyway I get paranoid that she'll cheat on me but I know she wont, I trust her enough to not do it so I think you should trust her and if she loves you she wont cheat on you.

[love_linds]

i am in the same situation as your girlfriend actaully. i tend to lik other guys even tho i am in a relationship and hav been for a long time.
but even tho i lik them, that doesnt mean i am going to cheat on my boyfriend with them. because i love him.
he always asked questions about these guys but he knows there is nothing to worry about.
if she really does love you and you trust her more then anyone in the world(even yourself) there shouldnt be anything to worry about.
that doesnt mean you shouldnt try talking to her. again, and again. to reassure that everything will be fine and she wont cheat on you.

i hope that makes sense and hope it helps. :)

[Violetmonster]

she may love youu, but when people are truely in love they find it hard to have eyes for other people.
i can see your in a crap situation here.. maybe ask the boy?

[Ryhanna]

Just because she gets flirty with other guys doesn't mean she's cheating, or that she ever will. If you really love her then you should trust her :)

[Daniel_]

Alright, here's your best bet:

If I were you, what I would do is when shes sleeping, in the shower, in the bathroom, or anything like that, grab her cell phone and read through her messages.

If she recently deleted her messages, try again some other time, but if you find she has been flirting with this other man, confront her about it.

[Mitch14]

i cant do that for a few reasons, we are both 14-hence mitch14- so we do not live together, and im not going to invade her privacy like that.

[1_21Guns]

your both 14?
your not in love. not real love.
sorry to sound harsh, but your not.
your also young, so its quite possible she's just acting out because of her hormones, not that that is an excuse.
love is just a word, the meaning behind it is a completely different story.
ask her, just say what's going on.
if she reacts badly, it's her loss hun.
yeah you might be upset, but if she cant control herself then that's not your fault.

[The Dark Lord]

Bit of a crazy idea here..
TALK TO HER!

[Heretic]

Neither of you love the other. Infatuation is much better in my opinion anyway. If you think she's cheating, ask. If you still think she is. Do whatever the hell you want. Relationships are full of shit at our age anyway. Good luck.

[Mitch14]

well, since we fought alot, we broke up...but it was an ugly one, and she told me she didnt love me, she never did, and that she was only going out with me to get her ex jealous. shiiit. o well. ill get through it. im really depressed, especially because i had my first kiss with her.

[Heretic]

well, since we fought alot, we broke up...but it was an ugly one, and she told me she didnt love me, she never did, and that she was only going out with me to get her ex jealous. shiiit. o well. ill get through it. im really depressed, especially because i had my first kiss with her.

Just be glad you didn't lose your v card to her and then have her realize she has no attraction to you at all. But I'm not bitter.

[Mitch14]

whats a v card?

[Dan_UK]

Just because she gets flirty with other guys doesn't mean she's cheating, or that she ever will. If you really love her then you should trust her :)


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Alright, here's your best bet:

If I were you, what I would do is when shes sleeping, in the shower, in the bathroom, or anything like that, grab her cell phone and read through her messages.

If she recently deleted her messages, try again some other time, but if you find she has been flirting with this other man, confront her about it.

No, no, 1000 times no. Don't EVER do something like that, it's nosy, rude, and especially bad if you were to get caught invading her privacy like that, there's many better ways to sort a problem like that



and to the post above, I'm guessing by V-card he most likely means virginity

[Mitch14]

Oh, ya. She is really pisssed at me....not sure why....But since i hate it when people hate me, i apologised ( my friends thought it was stupid) and she told me to fuck off....whatever. my friends were right about her. they said she: wasnt my type and was going to end up hurting me...now i believe them

[1_21Guns]

whats a v card?

i'm going to assume it means virginity.