Sister :@

[pixie1234]

Well my sister and I have never seem eye to eye but recently we have grown apart more, she knows I self harm and she is constantly a bitch about it. For example she would start one of her daily arguments with me and even though I done nothing to her she'd say something like aww go slit your wrists, or next time push the blade deeper go jump under a car ect

I know you'll all say every sibling is like this but everyday constantly arguing is not what I'd call normal :/ tbh I don't even want to live with my overprotective mother and her cos I can't breathe or catch a break and all I want is to live a normal life but I can't get that if I'm with them.

My dads taking me to see a counceller sometime in the near future. Do you think I should say about how I feel at home??

Sorry if this is in wrong place was undecided weather to put this in this one or another xx

[Contra]

If you are going to a councelor, you're supposed to say what you're feeling, so yes, do it. Maybe he can find a way to help you get through it, because I don't know what you should do...

Good luck :)

[Kaya]

Deff. tell the counselor

[CantBeTamed]

Well i know how you feel about the sister thing my sister is a psycho her and i were like best friends at one point when we were young we didnt get along then as we got older we were inseparable now since she got married shes a total bitch to me idk if that has anything to with it or not but the last time i lived with my mom my sister made life a living hell for me all the time she would either be like "you gay we know it why dont you just tell me we dont care" which that isnt nessisarily bad but when she will let her husbund call me a fag all the time and dis on me that hurts and when i try to depend myself she goes insane she has basically tried controling my life and its not cool and my mom couldnt put a stop to it my sis could be like oh lil emo boy go cry in a corner go do your lil cutting thing oh you might as well end ur life your just an expense on everyone your no use to us blah blah blah so finally what i did was move i wont have anything to do with her i know im sacraficing seeing my nephews i had to do whats right for me so just hang in there dont listen to her its not worth your time if you have to just break all communication with her thats what i did and the sad thing is now i think my sister is trying to apologize which i wont accecpt she came to my town to see her friends and randomly stopped me on the road and im freaking out in my mind and shes like trying to get info out of me about some things then she slipped me 20 bucks which is proly her way of apologizing which wont work so all i can say is stay strong ignore her and then if she doesnt change when you turn 18 just break off communication with her i feel so much better not having her in my life the only down side is i do miss my nephews but best of luck i hope i helped

[LoveMe_HateMe]

Have you tried talking to your sister about she makes you feel? That could solve some problems.
Yes you should tell the councellor how your feeling at home as they're there to help you for what ever reason. They could offer you advice on how to deal with it or i suppose even talk to you mum about it. To be honest I'm not really sure, but I hope this helps you :)

PM if you ever need/want to talk :)

[pixie1234]

heyy as you may have seen in my thread in dating and relationships my ex cheated on wednesday and tash realised when his mates were against me we were slipping apart so yea fingers crossed (yn)

thanks to everyonw who posted havent really had time to check my account recently :/ only just got onto laptop to really look :) xx

[imcool_17]

yeah your right its not normal. my two uncles when they were in high school would have fist fights and the youngest would always lose and have many bruises all around him. now they don't even really speak to each other. just on rare occasions. and yeah i think you should talk about everything and just let it all out, thats the only way and it'll help in the end.

[Kahn]

The main problem between you two seems to be the way you communicate your problems to each other. It seems you two take the "lets argue about something stupid until we stop talking to each other" approach rather than the "we need to sit down and talk this through" approach. It is not all her fault, for you could be the bigger woman and walk away from all of it. If she continues it talk to your mother about it and if it continues you may even need to think about moving in with your dad if it bothers you this much.

I do not want to sound like I am defending your sisters actions, but it may be because of you self harming. She may worry that you are hurting yourself but can only approach it by yelling at you. Sit down with your sister and talk about how you feel, it may be the only way you two can restore a healthy relationship at this point. Good luck.

[Shortkid]

Yes, definitely tell the counsoler. I hope that things get better for you and your sister

Chris