First Kiss - Advice on what next?

[cooldude123]

Hello all :)

I've been with my girlfriend for two weeks. It doesn't sound like much, but for the first time on my life, she feels like 'the one'. You may say im too young, but its a natural feeling and i can't help it. Anyway, just yesterday, i had my first kiss. For the first time in my life, and it felt amazing, and im so happy :) She was the one who mentioned it, and asked me. It was only quick kiss on the lips, but its a start. Now, this is where i am stuck. Personally, i would like to move it a little further. Nothing serious, though, but so we have proper, long kisses, if you get where i am going? It probably sounds really stupid, but explaining this is difficult :) But, because the whole thing is new to me, im really clueless and i don't have a clue to be honest... Me and my girlfriend are really open about things. I can talk to her about most things, if that helps?

Thanks for any advice :)

[nick]

Just let the kisses develop, a bit longer each time or whatever. Dont try and work to some timetable, take things at the speed that is right for you both. Enjoy talking to each other and learning from each other.

[rextoystory]

All that nick said is correct. Things will develop, but NEVER forget one thing...

RESPECT HER! That's one of the most important things in a relationship, don't put pressure on her or anything... The magic of the kiss will come at its time :)

A relationship is like... a really good dish! You want to eat it all quickly, but if you do it, you'll finish it sooner :( Stupid comparing, forgive me :)

Anyway, conclusion is: give it time, it will come on its own :) and most importantly respect her!

GOOD LUCK!! And congratulations!!

[kyle95]

The next step is to RESPECT her and go no further if she's truly the "one". No you're not too young but you're certainly more prone to mistakes. I've had a relationship since 14 and with the same girl. Do nothing to intimidate or to coax her. You have to be the man in this relationship and look out for her best interest. If this leads to intimacy you do not broadcast this to your mates, you will respect her and protect her.

[Dismantled..]

Just let things go at the Natural pace. As to what Nick said, don't put things on a timetable.