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Future_Prez
June 11th, 2010, 10:35 PM
i'm going to a summer camp in a few days where i will have to undress and shower with other guys, from what i understand, you cannot wear anything while showering...i wear briefs and i think i'm small for my age, and i'm a little embarassed, what should i do?
Aless1225
June 11th, 2010, 10:50 PM
Just think about it there might be other guys much aller than you
carmiklb
June 11th, 2010, 10:51 PM
Just think podsitively about it!
emt.Cam
June 11th, 2010, 10:55 PM
Don't be embarrassed, as I can almost guarantee there will be others that may be smaller than you. Size means nothing; although, society put's such a drastic bluff on size. The penis comes in millions of different sizes, shapes, etc. I'd encourage you to not let something of this nature to prevent you from meeting a bunch of a new friends and having a great time. You'll be just fine kiddo, keep that head up. If you need anything, please don't hesitate to PM me.
BigRedSC
June 11th, 2010, 11:00 PM
i remember those days at camp...just have fun, don't think about that kind of stuff....meet new friends and enjoy yourself, you'll be fine
Enormous
June 12th, 2010, 03:26 AM
I can guarantee that there are other guys that are nervous/embarrassed about showering too. It is pretty awkward and intimidating but if it were me I would just try and ignore my surroundings and just focus on showering - there really is no reason to be embarrassed, what's the worst that can happen?
aerobooster
June 12th, 2010, 03:38 AM
they are probs as nervous as you are, you might not be that small... they might be smaller than you...
chrissm
June 12th, 2010, 03:52 AM
The showers are just for washing in really, not for guys to be measuring each other up. All guys know that we develop at different rates, there's no reason why anyone should care what size you are and certainly they shouldnt make fun of it.
cota28
June 12th, 2010, 07:15 AM
yep most likely you will not be the smallest there. just remember there will be differenst sizes and different levels of hairyness, some cut some uncut. i guess what i am trying to say is that there isnt a gold standard for what a penis should look like and you shouldnt worry about it.
lorenor85
June 12th, 2010, 09:08 AM
behave normal like you have a shower with other boys every day. maybe you are small, maybe not, there is always another guy that is smaller than you! And regarding your underwear: some other will wear briefs, too! if you wear it because yiou feel good in briefs than there is no matter to be embarrassed. have fun
Anima
June 12th, 2010, 09:32 AM
whTs the problem? all you have to do is take a shower (try not to get a boner) and get out. problem solved :) your probably not the smallest there.
swimmwe guy
June 12th, 2010, 09:43 AM
dont worry i was the same way when i started sports but its not as bad as you think now im perfectly comftarble showering with other guys
staying_alive
June 12th, 2010, 10:26 AM
Honestly, people simply don't care when you're showering together. As guys, there's generally two things society makes us worry about: penis size and being gay. Now, when you shower with eachother, these two conflict. If someone says something about you, make them the bad person by asking them why they were looking there. Typically you never have to do this though, cause no one ever gets on a high horse and says something about someone else. Just enjoy camp, make new friends, and don't worry about the showers!
SneakBrain
June 12th, 2010, 11:57 AM
i dont think anything going to happen
horntoad
June 12th, 2010, 12:05 PM
who cares. if you get teased then the guys teasing are most likely uncomfortalbe with their size.
MisterE
June 12th, 2010, 12:28 PM
everyone else there will be in the exact same positon as you, so dont worrie about it, i dont see why they woulnt allow you to wear swimming trunks or somthing though,
impact_75
June 12th, 2010, 04:59 PM
Just don't worry. I bet they are all freaking out 2oo. Just keep to yourself and go in there and shower.
Texasdude3241
June 12th, 2010, 05:15 PM
The others will be as nervous as you.
Yahyahyah
June 12th, 2010, 06:43 PM
just chill, they'll be going through the same thing you're going through, and there will be lots of kids like you.
mikephelps
June 13th, 2010, 06:25 AM
Hey I've been there. I'm smaller than everyone on the swim team. Even younger guys. You might get teased a little but just try shrug it off. You ca try saying stuff like what are you doin lookin down ther or It ain't done growin yet. Whatever happens It's not so bad after the first couple times. If you act like it you don't care they stop
kyler
June 13th, 2010, 08:43 AM
well its pretty normal to be shy but try not to be embarrassed I mean there will always be people that are bigger and smaller with more hair and less hair than you. just try not to worry about it enough to spoil your fun times
Astor
June 13th, 2010, 09:02 PM
Doubtlessly, there will be guys there smaller than you. It may seem scary at first, but, hopefully, you'll get used to it. Good luck!
HikaruTheHunter
June 13th, 2010, 09:09 PM
Yeah don't worry about it dude. It's your dick, if they care then they either have something smaller, and try to make it seem that you are smaller, and they'll use it as fuel. But hey, when they talk crap, it's all about proving what they have. :D
Zackk
June 13th, 2010, 10:14 PM
I remember back when i did that when i was like 8. it didnt phase me though because i was 8. but if i had to do that now i would flip
spw184
June 13th, 2010, 10:21 PM
who knows they might have shower stalls.....
LeopardSox
June 13th, 2010, 11:25 PM
this kinda thing is hard for me to. i'm scared of showering in public and i prefer to wait till people are not around. but just relax. guys like comparing but your size was meant for you and there are lots of people that are smaller
Powerline
June 13th, 2010, 11:28 PM
You shouldnt be ashamed about the size of your penis. There is a very high chance that there will be guys the same size as you or even smaller. Just think positive and dont be ashamed of your body. Im sure there will be some boys in the same situation.
paul48
September 11th, 2010, 01:50 PM
just chill out and relax. everyone else is probably feeling the same way too
Malcolm Tucker
September 11th, 2010, 02:36 PM
Please don't bump old threads. Don't make me warn you again.
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