im scared

[blah_x]

ii know this is really wierd.. nd ii hope people dont go all funny about this but ii keep day dreaming about my friends and families funerals.. now ii know this is beyond sick and twisted but ii dont know why ii do it.. nd ii dont know if ii should tell people about i or not??
help

[Kaya]

it might help if you tell someone

[blah_x]

But ii cant im afraid..:/
mi counsellor is going to think im a freak :( im afraid they will send me sme where...:(

[Asylum]

she won't think your a freak hun. most she'll hthink is that you care about them and are paranoid of losing them which is normal. i daydream about losing people too bcause im so afraidof losing thm. it's not an muwhaha im dreamin about you dead bt an... i'd be terrily sad if yo died.. i can't comphrehed the feelings i'm scaed of losing you thing. as far as sending yu somewhere i highly doubt that hun.

[steve1234]

Most people have strange thoughts and dreams etc. Much more people than you would have thought.
You should definatly tell your counsellor. If your counsellor ever thought you was a freak, then he/she is a pretty useless counsellor. Counsellors are there for people to tell all their thoughts to, so don't worry.

[blah_x]

i have an appointment on monday and ii think ii am finally going to tell them the truth.. about the suicide, terrible thoughts etc etc
!!

[myskias]

Don't be afraid to tell the counselor or psychologist this because they wont tell anyone and they are there to help you!! Don't worry everything will be okay :)

[SneakBrain]

its okay i dream about that too, but i get over it after like 1/2 week. dont tell`anyone about it and try not to think about it as much as u can. good luck....

[Nickk XD]

Oh, I'm sorry I didn't see this sooner.

This isn't something that you need to go up to them and say "Hey, I've been dreaming about your funeral". I'd just relax and maybe speak with a professional, like a counselor.

Things like this come in phases. I had an odd phase (which I related to a suicide phase even though killing myself wasn't a possibility). When I was younger I kept wondering "If we were created by god, then this must all be fake and pointless" and so on. Like there was no point. I'm not sure how to explain it, but I can say it was similar to yours.

How old are you?

[Ryhanna]

Don't worry...
I do it sometimes too. I'm constantly day dreaming (oddly, I never dream in my sleep :/) and I will sometimes day dream of friends and family's funerals... I think it's normal, to those of us that do it anyway. I find it scary, but I also find it a reminder that they're still here :)

[Mike321]

I've been doing this for years, I dont know why though
And you should just be honest with your counsellor, chances are they've heard things like this before and they will know what help to offer you, so dont be scared of them
As you know you can PM me anytime if you want to talk
And good luck tomorrow! :) x

[Clawhammer]

There's nothing wrong with imagining the funerals. A funeral is a ceremony in honor of their memory after they're dead. What would be creepy is if you imagined them dying all the time, as in viewing the event. I think you're fine, I think about how I want to die one day and what my funeral will be like, and occasionally I'll think about what life would be like without certain people in my life. No worries lass, it's not as creepy as you seem to think it is.

[blah_x]

im 16 :)

[blah_x]

and it is great to see others that experience the same thing as me.. sometimes though ii do imagaine how they die, espically my best friend :/
thanks mike :)
xx

[Violinist]

dont worry
it is just dream