This girl in my school...

[steve1234]

This isn't really an important subject, but I was just wondering about this.

There is this girl in my school, who I sit next to in my class, and we have got to know each other.
Now, she has got to be one of the most beautiful people in the school, and certainly in the 'popular' groups of friends. I don't think I have ever said more than just a sentence to people like this before.
She is nice to EVERYONE, and even though I have quite a few girls in my friend group, I talk to this girl (who isn't in my friend group) a lot more than any of the girls in my so called 'friend group'.
On first impressions, I think people would expect her to be bitchy and shallow etc etc, you know the stereotypical 'popular girl'.
Yet, she is probably the least shallow person I have ever met. She seems to respect everyone equally, and doesn't treat anyone differently. There is this kid, who has dwarfism, and a lot of people just don't really talk to him because of this (shallow, I know), but this girl has long conversations with him, and they both have a laugh. She is also the only girl I ever have a laugh with.

I can't understand why she is so nice. Maybe its because i've just been unlucky to grow up surrounded by incredibly shallow people. I dont know.

Ok, im not sure why I am posting this, but I was bored so thought I might as well try and work this out.
Maybe there is something wrong with me if I can't understand why someone is so nice :D

[Hollywood]

It's odd isn't it?

Believe it or not, there are nice people out there. The only way I can think of why she isn't a bitch like most of the others is because she was raised right. It's always nice to find people like that.

[INFERNO]

Everyone has their own philosophy of life, some may not have a name for it but everyone does. Everyone also draws upon how they were raised, previous experiences, etc... . I'm just guessing but for her, she may value any relationships she has with anyone, even if the relationships are just made on the spot between a random person. Hers may also involve striving for as much peacefulness and conflict resolution as possible. She also has an open mind and does not let her stereotypes and prejudice views be seen if she has strong ones.

I try to be as nice as I can to people because I see no point in being mean to people without a reason. She may share this same view and practice it as much as possible. She would also not make her anger all that known, high tolerance to make her angry and when angry, may try to stick to her philosophy so it's not overt anger that endangers others. Some people's anger may be just stomping their feet a bit and going "grrrrr" while others it may be turning into a loose cannon.

[LoveMe_HateMe]

Your not the only one who is confused as to why some people or so nice :P but as someone's already put, maybe she was just raised right :) it sounds your lucky to know her, wish some of my friends were as nice, but yeah.. :)

[Ryhanna]

I wish there were more people like her around... :)
I'm envious that I don't really know anyone like her. She's a special case, nowdays.