am i just putting it off

[chocolatepie]

my g/f the other day reluctantly asked me for sex, and i say reluctantly because she said that she was scared of asking me just in case i thought she was being pushy because we have been b/f and g/f several times before and now that we are now b/f and g/f again the series of events have been rather pacend (quicker). now in reply i jus said, oh wen the time is right coz i dont want there to b an accident and to f*** up our lives. now im not sure whether she just thinks im chickening out...

[fdsgfg55465]

my g/f the other day reluctantly asked me for sex, and i say reluctantly because she said that she was scared of asking me just in case i thought she was being pushy because we have been b/f and g/f several times before and now that we are now b/f and g/f again the series of events have been rather pacend (quicker). now in reply i jus said, oh wen the time is right coz i dont want there to b an accident and to f*** up our lives. now im not sure whether she just thinks im chickening out...
well its up to you and if she thinks you are then ohwell

[Maddi]

No way. It is your decision and if you have been on and off and are unsure, I would let her know that. Personally, it's all your decision. I mean, if you don't feel right about it, don't do it. Is there any reason you think she'd want to have sex? Maybe having it in mind that she could keep you longer or the relationship would be stronger afterwards? You need to ask questions TO HER. She may be able to help you out a bit too..and if you care about her DO NOT hold back anything. Trust me. Us girls don't like that. =]

[MoveAlong]

I'm not sure what this is about, and I can't help. But this is about sex, right? Puberty isn't about sex. Just because you have a penis involved doesn't make it puberty :| I don't want to offend, but sould this be moved? :(

[BP_Saladin]

Actually, I'd say puberty/adolescence has a lot to do with sex, seeing as how it's the pre-eminant age that kids start becoming sexually active.

[MoveAlong]

Still, puberty is not fully about sex. This isn't a sex forum, either. I'd like it moved to Relationships please, because this thread from my understanding is saying something about a relationship with a girl, but I really don't understand how the first post is written. It's jibberish to me, and all I can tell... my girlfriend and me broke up, got back together and now she wants sex. Am I putting sex off?

:| This is the best I can do, but I'd say that this isn't about zits, penis size, being gay, periods, ect.

Eh, but keep it here if I'm wrong :P

[Zazu]

Well i tihnk that if you dont want to have sex with her then you dont have to. Im sure that if she is a nice girl, which from what you said she is, then i'm sure she will fully understand.

[Just...Will]

Sorry, we can't answer questions about sex. Sorry.

Locking.