Why cant people see?

[Aceso]

Why cant people see past all that fake happyness? Why cant people see through that false smile? Why dont they understand that we are dying inside?
Some people just turn a blind eye to all these things just because they dont want to see it.
I know some of us here dont want to tell anyone, but I know that I wish someone would notice. But no-one ever does. Maybe its the same for you?

It fustrates me that nobody notices it. My mom Knows im depressed, yet she throws be back into school, My living nightmare, with only a days notice. And what do I do? I smile and nod my head, blinking away tears so they wont see and think of me as a baby and say ''sure mom, ill try.''
Oh hell im going to regret that. I wish they would see those tears. I wish they could really see whats going on inside, because maybe then they will think about what they are doing.

[Scarface]

It sounds like you are going through quite a tough time emotionally. Some people like to look away at others problems because a lot of people have some of their own. They think if they turn the other cheek they won't notice it. To be oblivious to society and wade through their problems alone.

You don't have to bottle up all of these feelings. Holding them back and covering everything up with false fronts and hiding how you really feel especially to your parents. Maybe when you feel comfortable you can approach your parents or your mom/dad individually and talk with them about how you're really feeling. Explain to them what's making you feel this way. Maybe they could take you to a therapist or you could even see a school counselor if you feel more safe there.

I know school can really suck. With trying to make friend, grades, teachers, clothes, homework. It can all get very stressful and overwhelming, but never feel like you have to go it alone. there are always going to be people to talk to or open up to. You don't have to feel this way. Just have a talk with your parents I'm sure they want you to be happy.

If you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here VM me anytime. I hope things work out for you.

[steve1234]

Im in a similar position I suppose. I'm very depressed at the moment, and for some reason I actually seem to want someone to notice this and feel sorry for me. I dont know why the hell I want someone to feel sorry for me. Maybe it shows how selfish I am.

Wild Untamed, it sounds like you need to speak to someone. Maybe you should speak to your mum and make her understand you need help?

[Lights]

You've spoken emotion like "I wish someone would notice. But no-one ever does" which I feel all too often as well.
People do know I'm upset, but they just don't want to say anything about it. My mum says it's just that they don't know what to say. Maybe it is... but at the very least they could acknowledge it?

You're right, school can really suck and often it does; but we just have to get to grips with it. Especially when important exams are likely to be upcoming. You simply can't afford to be worried about personal problems. I know this myself. It's horribly difficult, and at times too much, but we have to try. I say this to many people, but I think it may just be a phase. Things do eventually get better.

PM me if you would like any further support.

[Aceso]

I know this myself. It's horribly difficult, and at times too much, but we have to try. I say this to many people, but I think it may just be a phase. Things do eventually get better.


A 4 year Phase? :(

[Lights]

I'll just be blunt here: so you've been unhappy every day for 4 years?
Try and look at the positives. Is there anyone you're close to? Remember the good days, and try to recreate them.

[blah_x]

wild untamed, ii couldn't have put it better myself.. ii know exactly how yu feel.
ii just wish that just 1 person would notice me and ask how ii am.. maybe if they had ii wouldnt be in the situation ii am :(

[myskias]

guys.. i know it hurts to be depressed, and i know how all of this feels. its miserable.. but it takes a very.. intuitive person to be able to see through the fake smiles and stuff. hiding it all inside does not help at all, ive tried that before and it definately does not work.

If you guys have at least 1 friend you can talk to and tell everything to, that person you can let everything out to, then you can let all your bottled up emotions go. And once you release those negative emotions you will have room for the happy ones to move right on in their place!

By the way guys if you ever need someone to let your feelings out and problems out to. just message me and i will talk to you :) over aim or the message system. Everything will be okay

[Aceso]

I'll just be blunt here: so you've been unhappy every day for 4 years?
Try and look at the positives. Is there anyone you're close to? Remember the good days, and try to recreate them.

Yes, I have been depressed for four years. Scince I was 10. There is someone I am close to, who doesnt go to my school and now knows about my self harm, but he pressures me to stop, so Im keeping secrets from him. :( I feel bad for it because he is only trying to help. Trying to remember the good days is so hard now, and when I do remember them, it hurts because I dont know if I will ever feel like that again...


If you guys have at least 1 friend you can talk to and tell everything to, that person you can let everything out to, then you can let all your bottled up emotions go. And once you release those negative emotions you will have room for the happy ones to move right on in their place!


Mom told me that If I keep going to people to talk about it, they will become bored with me and think of me as someone who just goes crying to people. I allready told my best friend, but it doesnt feel any better, only when I am talking to him...the rest of the time...its pain, or no emotions at all... :(

wild untamed, ii couldn't have put it better myself.. ii know exactly how yu feel.
ii just wish that just 1 person would notice me and ask how ii am.. maybe if they had ii wouldnt be in the situation ii am :(

Oh I agree...I hope things get better for you xxx

[LoveMe_HateMe]

Most people don't see cause they either don't want to see it or they don't care enough to see past it. There's people I know that if they thought about it and how I am, they'd know exactly that things weren't right. Hell, they've told me that I wasn't right after I had serve mood swings, that I should go to the doctor or someone. Yeah, guess where they've left me now. Some people just don't give a flying shit about other people. Its all about them.

Sorry rant over. But yeah...yet again I have no real advice that hasn't already been said...god I'm really lacking at the moment :(...Hmm...

[Aceso]

Most people don't see cause they either don't want to see it or they don't care enough to see past it. There's people I know that if they thought about it and how I am, they'd know exactly that things weren't right. Hell, they've told me that I wasn't right after I had serve mood swings, that I should go to the doctor or someone. Yeah, guess where they've left me now. Some people just don't give a flying shit about other people. Its all about them.

Sorry rant over. But yeah...yet again I have no real advice that hasn't already been said...god I'm really lacking at the moment :(...Hmm...

:hug: <--- Hun, sounds like you need it more than I do. Good luck to you, I will be thnking about you xxx No matter what, theres everyone here who we can come to for help :wub:

[LoveMe_HateMe]

:hug: <--- Hun, sounds like you need it more than I do. Good luck to you, I will be thnking about you xxx No matter what, theres everyone here who we can come to for help :wub:

Aww thank you ^_^ yeah i know, I'm so glad I stumbled across this site :) it's helped me sooo much xxx