Sleeping in bed with my friend

[Swimmaboy]

So last week, i stayed the night at my friends house and him and i slept in the same bed. He has a full size bed so we both had plenty of room. I woke up around 3am maybe? and he was basically spooning me. I could feel he was hard and his hand was on my waist. Next thing i know his hand was in my boxer briefs and he was rubbing my dick. I didnt know what to do so i just let him jack me off. What do i do next time if he touches me and i want to touch him back?

[that kid]

Well if you both consent to it I would think it's fine.

[fystr]

you should probably let him know that you know he's doing it (if he doesn't already), and then go by his reaction to that

[mach5]

not cool man. it would be fine if you both were awake but if he did it while he thoguht you were asleep: not cool.

[curious_dude]

I agree with mach5. Being awake and you both agreeing to do that is one thing but him doing that while you were asleep? That's not just un-cool, but creepy too. Other than that, go for it (as long as both of you are fine with it).

[javs262]

is this a rhetorical question? this kind of seems like a common sense kind of question, but i guess next time he touches you and you want to touch back then... touch back.

i agree with Mach5, you were sleeping, not cool, that dude is lucky you were okay with it, if i was super tired, i would have just sat up in bed and been like "dude, go rub your own dick, im trying to sleep"

[cokeboy]

hey dude sounds like u know the answer
if he touches u and u wanna touch him back
then as long as ur ok with it then by all means
touch him back.

[Sandlapper50]

he's obviously ok with touching, so like they said, i'd just touch him back.

[Aaron42]

I agree with most of the other people. If your both awake then it's ok, but while your asleep; not cool. But if you both like it ( while awake) then go ahead.

[charlie3322]

not cool man. it would be fine if you both were awake but if he did it while he thoguht you were asleep: not cool.

EXACTLY!! its wrong

[RadioPlayer]

if he is touching you, and you want to touch him, GO RIGHT AHEAD!

[Punjab]

If it was me i would punch him in the face! like seriously... unless maybe i was really horny, but if he did it to me when i was asleep! WTF

[CaliKid24]

Since u were asleep it's kinda weird. Let him kno u enjoyed it and then go from there.

[ryker]

I sleep in my friend's bed everytime we sleep in each others houses and this never happen yet. I think you must talk to the friend before the next occurs

[dhjgfdgrrr]

if you aren't comfortable with him doing it, stop him!! Don't let him take advantage of you

[jimmycouch14]

Okay so you were asleep, that really wasn't right. He took a chance and you liked it so you both are lucky. I think you know what do next time.

[LeopardSox]

unless you know this person real well i'd be careful who you let touch you in that area. now if you both agree to it and enjoy it then alright arrange rules about what you can and can't do but otherwise tell him to buzz off

[HikaruTheHunter]

Wow, I kinda consider that lucky, you know? But if he does it again, just touch back.

[Tanner]

Rape!!!!!!

[dhjgfdgrrr]

haha idk if it's rape...but pretty close to it

[Muscleteen92]

I don't see the problem if u want to do it back btw I WISH that would happen to me

[GamerCody]

If yall are both ok with it then maybe have a jack off session next time. But I do agree with the other people: he sort of took advantage of you..

[CestDan]

Talk to him seriously, I mean, I think like most of the people here. If you both guys are agree with "what will be next" so go on. :D

[Davidd1995]

Ya just touch him back

[seanmax]

just tell him u dont want to do that

[zcornett]

Thats a little creepy that he tried to have anal sex with you while you were asleep. Next time you are in the same bed, just tell him that you know and that you are okay with it and you want to do it with him. If he's okay with it, then go with it. If he's not okay, then don't do anything

[david191]

I think you should just grab him back if he does this again

[Iron Man]

I really disagree with all of these horny noobz saying you should immediately touch him back. If he doesn`t know that he is doing it in his sleep, tell him in the least awkward fashion. And if he knows he is doing it, state your feelings about it, and see where it goes from there.

[cool7189403]

Was he even awake?

[Powerline]

If you were into him too. Then there would be no problem with you giving it back to him. Maybe even giving eachother handjobs. But if you werent in to him then I would just tell him to leave you alone.

[Lights]

Wow, I kinda consider that lucky, you know? But if he does it again, just touch back.

I kind of agree with you. I can't imagine myself being in a situation like that any time soon.

You liked it, right? So maybe touch him back?

[CantBeTamed]

thats not right but if you are both cool with it touch back

[newteen13]

Not cool for him to do that to you while you're sleeping. But, if it happens again, and you want to do it with him, then say if you want to play around, its Ok with me. If you don't want to do it, tell him you don't like it and to stop.

[mranderson]

Thats a little creepy that he tried to have anal sex with you while you were asleep. Next time you are in the same bed, just tell him that you know and that you are okay with it and you want to do it with him. If he's okay with it, then go with it. If he's not okay, then don't do anything

Ide agrree with this

[lil emo boy]

Well take a guess. Ur friend is oviously atracted to u. So he would'nt mind if u touch him bak

[LordOfTheToaster]

Before that happens the next time, I'd tell him you were awake and are OK with the idea. He can't be feeling too great about doing that while you slept.

[Anima]

well if he does again, jo together?

[SneakBrain]

lucky u next time just carry on :P haha nuh if u dont wana do it or if u feel uncomfortable just make it clear in easy way to him

[JUSTI]

So last week, i stayed the night at my friends house and him and i slept in the same bed. He has a full size bed so we both had plenty of room. I woke up around 3am maybe? and he was basically spooning me. I could feel he was hard and his hand was on my waist. Next thing i know his hand was in my boxer briefs and he was rubbing my dick. I didnt know what to do so i just let him jack me off. What do i do next time if he touches me and i want to touch him back?

I did that with my cousin and he liked it

[suprise]

yeah man, let him touch you but you touch him back... let him know you want to.

[hrecknoall]

if you don't like just say no! Tell him not to do it. You shouldn't feel violated

[axel3]

then touch him back? and maybe even rub behind there.

[berolpen]

if u want it to happen again then just put yourself in a position for him to do it like maybe stick your dick out of your boxers, and then wen he starts wanking u just turn around and just wank him or moree..... (thats wat id do)

[Hank Hill]

Definetely a little strange that you were sleeping, but I say that if you're cool with it, just chill with him and do it, if not, tell him you're uncomfortable.

[walpoler93]

well if he touches you first, and you wanna touch him back... GO FOR IT!! lol, itll be fine

[the jeffrey]

Wtf that is so rape.......sort of.

[CarnivorousBat]

if you are both into it go ahead. have fun

[janthem]

awkward...but he definitely needs ur consent

[Davidd1995]

That happend to me a few weeks ago

[kevmon]

someone tryed to do it to me cuz of they way he was looking at m

[Break]

Once I was at a sleepover, and my friend had an air mattress, but he had it put away, and I said "I'll get it out and blow it up." And he was just like "no, no, no, no..." He said just sleep in my bed on the other side. (he has a big bed) I don't know why he wanted me to do it so much, and I said whatever, then his mom came in and blew up the air mattress when we were out of the room (lolzz).

[TheFame]

Thats kinda...rape.. Did he know you were awake?
If you want to touch him back...well TOUCH HIM BACK XD

[Deandre]

Depends on you bro, but that's abuse :O

[polarbear]

first off he kinda raped you, second just tell him you want to fool around he obviously likes it

[jgibbsd]

If you enjoyed it you should let him know and tell him if u liked it or not and take it form there!!

[AwesomeAussie]

Well if you both agree to it then go ahead but if you guys don't then don't do it

[jeffrey95]

That's not really cool, since it was without your consent. Seeing as he has no problem doing it, you should ask yourself if you want to do it again with him. If you don't, make it clear to him.

[curious guy]

Just touch him back and if he says anything just say ur returning the favor. I wud be happy if I were u. I don't have that good of freinds to do that to me. I'm str8 but curious

[zander]

i would tell him that he does not have ot wait till your sleeping

[Guitarman]

hey dude sounds like u know the answer
if he touches u and u wanna touch him back
then as long as ur ok with it then by all means
touch him back.

I agree ^^

[oscarlichen]

hey dude sounds like u know the answer
if he touches u and u wanna touch him back
then as long as ur ok with it then by all means
touch him back. yeah he's right! go for it! just pretend to be just waking up or something and when he stops tell him not to! lol.

[ray8806]

I agree with the guy above me.

BUT he shouldn't be doing that while you're asleep. He should have your consent. But you should tell him if you liked it or not. If not, tell him to please stop. If you did like it then tell him maybe you to could do something next sleep over.

[Judas]

As long as you're both cool with it :)

[Nancy Boy]

well if you have a straight friend that is willing to do that i would take the opportunity...but as long as ur ok with it...;)

[fat cat]

if u wanna touch him then do

[Milo1234]

well i say talk to him about it and if your both fine with it then do it

[TylerD96VA]

if you both liked it it's cool. just turn toward him and go from there.

[DJK22]

i think you should tell'em how u feel and let it go on frm there

[ivanori]

Just go with it.. moan, say his name, then play with him.

[DanielBoy]

Very slippery slope, it is not good that he did this to you as you were sleeping, but I guess it is okay if you enjoyed it, although he didn't know that. I guess if he gos to do it again, when you know he is about to do it, say something, it will startle him, but just explain you woke up last time, and you want to experiment. He will most likely be all for it. Don't let him just keep on thinking you are asleep, because that is wrong to do to somebody without their direct consent.

Hope this helps. :D

[JUSTI]

So last week, i stayed the night at my friends house and him and i slept in the same bed. He has a full size bed so we both had plenty of room. I woke up around 3am maybe? and he was basically spooning me. I could feel he was hard and his hand was on my waist. Next thing i know his hand was in my boxer briefs and he was rubbing my dick. I didnt know what to do so i just let him jack me off. What do i do next time if he touches me and i want to touch him back?

go for it and JO each other, its fun

[TySpeedy]

Your fricken lucky! Lmfao. xD

[bestever]

wish this happened to me and my friend... :(

if u liked it just go with it

if u didn't punch him in the jaw :D

[loverboy69]

Well if you like it...let him continue

[DJK22]

well if you want to touch him back go for it

[Jmann]

bro i have no idea what to say. i would pull his hand out of my pants cuz i would get creeped out if he is doing that and asleep

[minicoopkart]

idk about you, but I'd wake him up and start doing more. But if your not, don't tell him. But next time it does, talk to him about it

[tinkergenius]

So last week, i stayed the night at my friends house and him and i slept in the same bed. He has a full size bed so we both had plenty of room. I woke up around 3am maybe? and he was basically spooning me. I could feel he was hard and his hand was on my waist. Next thing i know his hand was in my boxer briefs and he was rubbing my dick. I didnt know what to do so i just let him jack me off. What do i do next time if he touches me and i want to touch him back?

I find it hard to believe - and I personally think it's IMPOSSIBLE to be jerked-off - IN ONES SLEEP - and to be unaware of it, just like I think it's impossible for the one "jerkin" - to think their partner isn't aware of it.

Sounds rediculous.

If it's me, I'm gonna like whisper..."COOL"..let's get it on, because we just wanna feel good, and it's between two consenting people...UH...LIKE YOU'RE NOT GONNA CONSENT AT 3AM???? -- give me a break!!

Feel Good!! Have Fun!! CUM BACK AGAIN!! WE'LL DO IT SOME MORE!! LOL

[playa85]

Definetly need to let him know your awake....for his sake and yours....I would hate that it develops into a pattern for him to keep doing that to other people just cuz he thinks they are asleep and not aware...that is a difficult and highly controversial position to be in.....

[applenerd15]

well if you liked it and you are into him, do it back. Maybe give hand/blow jobs?

[everestclimber]

Go ahead do it back to him

[trackstar9.875]

I say LIVE, and enjoy it.

I once saw a poster that read: LIVE....LIFE'S A BANQUET...AND MOST POOR BASTARDS ARE STARVING TO DEATH!!

[usernamelol]

just go for it. he obviously wants you lol

but you should also talk about him doing that to you in your sleep. . . thats a lil creepy

[Stronger]

You should talk to him, because if you both don't agree or at least awake then thts very weird.....talk to him about it ASAP

[JimSauce]

What the hell? I'm thinking "Rape!" the whole time I read that. Your friend shouldn't be jacking you off while you're asleep.... Anyway, just touch him back I guess.

[Mourfus]

is this a rhetorical question? this kind of seems like a common sense kind of question, but i guess next time he touches you and you want to touch back then... touch back.

i agree with Mach5, you were sleeping, not cool, that dude is lucky you were okay with it, if i was super tired, i would have just sat up in bed and been like "dude, go rub your own dick, im trying to sleep"

dude I'm tired go rub ur own dic that's pretty funny

[LittleMonsterMike]

Rape!!!!!!

hahaha that super creepy but really awesome at the same time i hope you have fun next time

[josh93]

If it is okay with you its fine for him to touch you and if he dosnt mind you touching him when he touches you i would say it is just fine.

[Rashard]

NOR COLL i would of snuffed him trans knocked his teeth out

[Cudder]

Let him know you were awake and laugh at his reaction. Lol. But I think it's fine. I wish my friend would do that to me

[CaliLax]

if ur comfortable with it, confront him and ask him about what happened. if ur not, confront him, and gently tell him your not comfortable with him doing that to you, especially while you were unaware.

[booo]

If you want to touch him back turn around and grab his dick :P or txt him and tell him "I liked what you did lastnight ;}""

[VeniVidiVici]

turn around and do it back, but i wouldnt let him take advantage of you when youre sleeping

[virtualteen13]

I would definitely reach back and grab his dick. If he did it to you first he obviously wouldnt do anything if you did it back

[Spyanimal]

Dude, you need to wake him up! I don't think that's an accident and unless it's ok for you, stop it.

[jonjon77777]

go for it!!

[The_Average_Kid]

Weird :S, I think your friend is gay or really really really horny. ;D

[Scarface]

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