Someone else..?

[Campbell]

First off, I know this must be a really common question but i'd really appreciate it if you guys would take the time to read and reply to this post :)

Over the past few weeks a friend and I have gotten really flirty and the conversation is leading further and further to sex. Today however when sitting in Costa one of her friends mentions she's going to see a 'crush' this weekend. I tried to seem happy but it kinda crushed me.. Do you think i'm starting to fancy her or is it just because of all this flirting? I've liked her in the past but got over her and we've only really started becoming good friends again the last few months after our group of friends split.

Any advice or suggestions would be great! I'm not sure about telling her I might like her cause i'd rather not scare her away..

Thanks :)

[LiTTleBrok3nDolly]

I think the fast that a) u flirted with u her and b) talked about sex-pratically that ur excited when u see her and so when u heard she was seeing someone else, it brought ur spirits down, i think you should just let it go for now, because if u werent in any SERIOUS relationship, then dont worry, it wont really hurt either one of u.

[Hollywood]

I don't think you're really fancying her, so much, as it's just a bit of remains from all of the flirting. Don't let it bother you though. If it is just a "phase", it will blow over soon. However, if it lasts longer than a month or so, you may very well fancy her.

Don't tell her how you feel now, because like I said, it's probably just a phase. If it doesn't pass in the next month, I would go ahead and tell her if she wasn't already in a relationship.

Just on a side note, don't try to stop her from going out with others. Let her do what she feels comfortable with.

Hope I helped.

[KillerKing]

I would suggest stopping the flirting and like the others said it give it a bit of time and let her do what she wants but get to know her better in the friendship way no matter what she does. I think you might fancy her but it's hard to tell just from flirting and hopefully you 2 will become really good friends and might feel something for each other but believe me if you do want to go out with her you want to get to know her first and thats from experience so good luck!

[wishyouwerehere]

i think you may fancy her but only a bit, probably due to all the sex hints you and she shared.
my opinion is that if things don't work out with the 'crush' she's going to see you have to go and ask her directly whether she likes you or not. (:

[swimfreak85]

well i relle dont kno what u should do...cuz i use to really like this girl and the way i felt bout her was really deep so wen i decided to tell her she told me how she was bout to be in a realationship with someone else...so i was a little upset till i found out the he stood her up on there first date...

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