Jeg vil blot ødelagt det alle (just blew it all)

[ryker]

Well, the title does explain my feelings that I feel presently. I write about the dances we have in my school on Friday before in my blog. I was so happy:D at the end of it that I think that me and my friend Yannick could have a relationship for us two.
But I ruined it all last night, I told him everything about how I feel now and how many to me he means:wub:! But he just ran away. I try to ring him and he no answer at all. I call to the house at today afternoon and his mam say he is busy.
I have lost my best, and really my only good friend that I have. Due to my poor english, I can not explain how much Yannick means but there is a phrase in Danish "Hans verden er min verden, og min verden er hans verden! " - it can be translated as my world is his world, and his world is my world.
What do I do now?

[chrissm]

:hug:

Really sorry Ryker, I read your blog and your post yesterday and was pleased that you'd enjoyed part of the dance at least and hoped for your sake that it might lead to something with Yannick. Its always a risk coming out to a friend, especially if you go one to tell them that you have feelings for them, and maybe next time you will go more slowly and try to find out how a friend feels about gays generally before moving on to the next stage.

Maybe when he's had a bit of time to get over the shock, which is probably what it seemed like to him, he will come back and at least allow you to be a friend again, dont give up hope of that just yet.

One of the drawbacks of being gay or bi is that most of the guys that you meet are straight so there are always going to be disappointments. Give it time though and you will find the right person for you.

[sam i am]

Just try not to force it . Keep calling him might make it worst . & if he does stop talking to u that screw him hes not ya real friend if he cant accept how u feel . "/

[ryker]

I know this may sound bad but I can not find the right person for me because Yannick is now

[thepieman]

I feel sorry for you, it's not great when the person you love doesn't seem to love you back. I do agree with Chris though, it is a big drawback that most guys are straight, and trust me, I wrote the book on falling for straight guys. :P

But I think you should hold off for a while. Wait a week, or maybe longer, for him to firstly get used to your sexuality. If he is a true friend, he'll talk to you again, and hopefully he'll remain your friend. But you can't make someone love you, and if he is straight, then you'll have to accept that he isn't going to like you in the same way you like him.

I really hope you guys can stay friends, but don't expect anything more. If he's straight, you'll have to move on to make yourself feel better - you will find the right guy eventually. :)

[KillerKing]

I think you should just wait, he needs time to process what you've told him. If anything I think he'd be a bit shocked but just reassure him that he doesn't have to have anything special with you and that if he wants you can just be friends. But don't hastle him just give him time.

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[soccer8]

im not for sure what to tell you but to go and tell him your sorry but you meant it and that you hope you can be friends again

[Carfreakjack]

Try waititng to see what he does. Iv heard alot of stories were the person gets angrey but then come around. Good luck and I'm sorry to hear that

[ryker]

It is whole one week today and I no hear anything. I just wair. My Papa & I seen him on the wednesday on the streets and he no say anything to me. Now My parents want to know why we no talk and I had to lie to them. I felt bad. He is going on holidays with my family on the 24 day of june so I wish he begin to talk soon

[chrissm]

Have you thought about writing him a short note saying something like "sorry if I upset you but cant we still be friends"

[ryker]

I try to, and I email him, Call him, Visit him but he just no listen to me.

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[Continuum]

I'm sorry to hear about that. :( You may be just a teeny weeny bit pushy on that love confession. He may be a little jolted, give him some time to unwind, in the mean time don't talk to him, just don't lose hope that he won't accept you again. If he's really a good friend then he might understand your situation right now. In the right time, if he decides to talk to you some time now, then talk. Don't talk to him until the end of the holidays okay? I'm sure he probably forgot the whole feelings dilemma by then.

[CantBeTamed]

Im Sorry To Hear This Dude Coming Out To A Friend Can Complicate Things If Hes Your True Friend He Will Come Around In Time I Mean If He Is Honestly A True Friend He Wont Let This Ruin Your Friendship He Will Just Let It Be And Maybe He Mite Start To Feel The Same Even If He Doesnt He Will Get Over It If Hes True Best Of Luck