Experienced sexually with cousin

[MenteFuerte]

Hey there, just wondering if anyone has experienced sexually with a family member (gay or straight). I'm a gay male (17) and my cousin and I used to fool around when we were 10-12 (we were both the same age). We did it again 3 years ago when we were both like 15 and I'm pretty sure a lot of people have done something similar. I'm also thinking it would be nice to do again now.

[scuba steve]

all my cousins are at least 5 years older, so no

[MenteFuerte]

For those of you who are just voting also keep in mind that it doesn't have to be a cousin. It could be a brother/sister. Anyone who was "family" and your age ish at the time.

[Jess]

never >_< my cousins are in China, I would never do such a thing with my brothers.

[MenteFuerte]

Yeah it seems as though it's more common with gay guys. I've met a few gay guys who have done something similar but not any straight people.

[thepieman]

Yeah it seems as though it's more common with gay guys. I've met a few gay guys who have done something similar but not any straight people.

I'm not sure about that, I thought it would be quite rare for two gay guys in the same age range in a family. :confused:

Anywho, I'd say no, my cousins are only young and I wouldn't do anything if they were my age.

[Kitty Purry]

I don't have any gay people in my family:( besides me. But no I wouldn't do it.

[Lord_Cosby 13]

I haven't done anything,but I wish I could, my cousin is hott as hell

[emt.Cam]

I'm straight so, No.

[BeautifulDisaster]

Yes, but it was molestation / sexual abuse.

[Blood]

Ew. No.

[MenteFuerte]

Let's not say things like "Ew No" or anything judgemental. I'm not really asking if you approve because I don't care. Theres nothing unethical about experimenting sexually with someone your age, who consents, and happens to be apart of your family.

[kyler]

hells no

[Jcat3]

Never would

[Clawhammer]

Nope. Thought about but would never do anything.

[DeEnd]

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[soccer8]

no and hopefully never will

[Haydzzz]

nah i havnt i would though with one of my cousins. ive always really liked her and we are really close. i dont no what it is im so against this but i would.

[Jordan]

yes, i chocked on his penis, but it was like he had done it b4

[MenteFuerte]

You have to realize that this sort of behavior is outside of the norm, and not necessarily socially acceptable. If someone has an adverse reaction to that, you should be prepared for it. Additionally, you say not to be judgemental, but then go on to give your own judgement "there's nothing unethical, etc." I think what you mean is "I deserve to have sex however, I'd like it. Don't tell me I can't". And that is something you need to think about.

There's a clear distinction between opinion and judgment. I'm not directing my thought that there's nothing unethical at anybody, saying 'Ew No' is implicitly. I didn't start this thread so that people could be rude if they disagreed with it, it was mostly just to guage how many other people had the experience.

And yes I understand the social implications of telling people this, which is why 1) I'm not, I"m asking others to vote if they've had the experience or not; and 2) Why I said I don't want to hear people judge it. The thread didn't say "do you think this is normal or ok?" so I'm really not interested in people's opinions regarding whether it's acceptable because I know that for me, it is.

[keas96]

my one cousin is like 22 and he's really cool i'd love to fool around with him but i dont think its gonna happen :/

[xxxbxxx]

i wish, but it's questionable if he has ever j/o... i noticed he's been hard around me though...