OMG im worried

[Bike-Curious]

Okay ive always had this problem, I watch gay porn but I dont want to do it befor and after, but something takes over... You see, im straight in every aspect except sexually. I dont see my self with a man when im older,Ive always wanted my own, natural children and I am attracted to girls phsically and socially and mentally... any help? Also I DONT WANT TO BE GAY. although i have nothing wrong with gay people i must add ! :mad::(:confused:

[Simply Someone]

It's alright, if you are attracted to two guys doing it, that's fine. I'm a girl and I watch lesbian porn and trust me, I am not a lesbian. But, I find it more exciting to watch two girls do it than two guys.

[Severus Snape]

Jack, you can't choose to be gay or not.

[Bike-Curious]

I think im worried cos I think the first porn i watched was gay... but i never got round to watching straight porn... I feel like a bit weird for never trying it... I sometimes say to myself; 'Right , the next time i watch it i am going to watch straight porn' But i never do it!! Its like theres a battle inside me. Any tips on how to control my urges? :what:

[Bike-Curious]

Jack, you can't choose to be gay or not.

Thats what scares me... I feel like someone else has chosen FOR me.

[Jcat3]

I watch it sometimes myself it is okay to have curiosity and you fell however you want to it's your life

[Bike-Curious]

But i think its more than curiosity you know? But ive read other threads like this and they say sexuality can change as you get older - but i cant just hope that happens. I need to know how to tell if im gay.

[Voleurz]

I was like this for a while, but then I accepted that i was bi. If thats the way you are it's kinda the way you are. Being straight or gay isn't a choice

[kenshin8106]

im the same way, i always tell myself im gunna watch straight porn next time, but i never do cus it doesnt really turn me on, if you want to talk just message me, im going thru the same thing lol and it sucks ik..

[goldbiospark]

Some people do i guess.

[Bike-Curious]

Thnks for your input, and guess what! I watched straight porn and I LIKED IT! :P Must have been all your support !! :D

[sam i am]

Ur most likely just curious or open minded dont let it bother u much u dont gotta label ya self just be u and do what u like

[dec_1892]

I'm pretty sure you're not gay. Positive. You basically just spoke my entire mind/problem with this post.:/
Being gay is a psychological thing, but ULTIMATELY it is your choice. It's not forced. It might be pressured, but never forced.

[lamboman43]

I'm pretty sure you're not gay. Positive. You basically just spoke my entire mind/problem with this post.:/
Being gay is a psychological thing, but ULTIMATELY it is your choice. It's not forced. It might be pressured, but never forced.

A majority of people, including me, believe you can't just choose your sexuality. Because if we could, I'm sure alot of us wouldn't be making these kinds of threads.

[cokeboy]

dude just because ur str8 and watch gay porn doesnt
mean ur gay or bi. alot of str8 guys prefer to watch gay
porn instead of str8 porn i think theres even a thread about
that on here somewhere as well. so dont worry dude itz all good

[CaptainObvious]

Okay ive always had this problem, I watch gay porn but I dont want to do it befor and after, but something takes over... You see, im straight in every aspect except sexually. I dont see my self with a man when im older,Ive always wanted my own, natural children and I am attracted to girls phsically and socially and mentally... any help? Also I DONT WANT TO BE GAY. although i have nothing wrong with gay people i must add ! :mad::(:confused:

Straight, gay and bi are all sexualities. Therefore, being straight in every aspect except sexuality means you aren't straight, since sexuality is the only thing that matters to that definition.

I'm pretty sure you're not gay. Positive. You basically just spoke my entire mind/problem with this post.:/
Being gay is a psychological thing, but ULTIMATELY it is your choice. It's not forced. It might be pressured, but never forced.

No, it is really not his choice. Most people have absolutely no control over which gender attracts them sexually. Most of those who purport to have any control over it are deluding themselves.

I think im worried cos I think the first porn i watched was gay... but i never got round to watching straight porn... I feel like a bit weird for never trying it... I sometimes say to myself; 'Right , the next time i watch it i am going to watch straight porn' But i never do it!! Its like theres a battle inside me. Any tips on how to control my urges? :what:

You can't control who you're attracted to, so my tip is to stop trying to fight it.

Thats what scares me... I feel like someone else has chosen FOR me.

I know, it's sort of scary, but that's the way it works.

But i think its more than curiosity you know? But ive read other threads like this and they say sexuality can change as you get older - but i cant just hope that happens. I need to know how to tell if im gay.

You sound like you're attracted to guys. Want it or not, the odds are that you're gay - or at the least, bisexual leaning gay.

[randomlyonhere]

i have the same problem. your fine

[abcd920]

im in the same thing wiht u

[metal101]

Jack, you can't choose to be gay or not.

being gay is choice. It's not genetic. never been proven...never will be.

[Sith Lord 13]

being gay is choice. It's not genetic. never been proven...never will be.

Actually, we have a monumental amount of evidence that it is genetic.

Even if it's not genetic alone, it is not a choice. It's a mixture of genes and early psychological events. You don't choose who you're attracted to.

[CaliKid24]

I think that if u like it than watch it. If u want to have kids and a wife than marry a girl. U can live however u want. If u choose to watch gay porn than u can choose who u want to marry. It all depends on what makes u happiest. I've always wanted to have natural kids from a wife, but if I fall in love with a guy than there's always adoption.

[HelloWorld123456]

Thats what scares me... I feel like someone else has chosen FOR me.

being gay is not a choice, it is a natural fact and i don't think there pretty much anything you can do about it unfortunately :/