What do you think about me?/Help!

[KillerKing]

Hey peeps,
I've just realised I think i could be bi. I know it sounds weird, but, i thought i was always bi curious as in i loved girls and were attracted to them but was only ever physically attracted to guys but now i think i could love another guy. I really don't know i've never been so confused because even if i did decide that i was actually bi i would never tell anyone because i'd be to scared and wouldn't want it to put any possible future girlfriends off me. So i'm never gonna meet a boy and love him and if i did i'd have to reveal my true sexuality to everyone which i dont want to do so what would be the point of being bi?

I'm so confuzzled i want to be open but i can't be because i couldnt bear the judgement people would pass on me with one swift look.

So what do i do? What am i? And am i just completely mad?

[iamniokekun]

Being a teenager is an awkward stage in life. You may just simply be bi. This whole "curious" stuff I've been hearing doesn't exist, btw. It's normal.

[Zero Beat]

This whole "curious" stuff I've been hearing doesn't exist, btw.

So many people say god exist/doesnt exist... does that mean he does/doesnt?
You'll find a lot of people say it does happen, because it does.

KillerKing:

Make sure you know what you are if you're going to come out. Finding/working out what you are can be a hard thing sometimes. Just think about it, and go with what you feel is right for you.

[that kid]

Yay hormones... Just go along with it for now and don't do anything rash until you know what you want for sure.

[chrissm]

If you are bi you need to try to come to terms with that and embrace it, its part of who you are. There is no need to come out to anyone at all so long as you are not involved in any gay relationships, but you could find that you're wrong to say that you are never going to meet a boy and fall in love with him because love is something that you cant always control.

[CaliKid24]

nah ur not mad. dont worry. if ur bi then just go with it. if u cant accept yourself for who you are, no one will accept u.

[Eskimo]

I personally except you for it. I just wish everyone else in the world could.

[KillerKing]

Thanks Guys! :)
After reading that I think I'm just gonna give it a lot of thought and time.

Cheers!

[thepieman]

Mate, you're definitely not mad at all.

Firstly, I think you should wait a bit before making any snap decisions. This time last year I was your age, and I felt about the same. I had just began to see myself dating guys as well as girls, which I hadn't been able to before. For many guys, including me, this is a major step in realising your sexuality, and you could well be bi. But for others, it can be a phase caused by all your hormones going mad in your teenage years. Some people take many years before realising their actual sexuality, others know earlier on, and only you yourself know what you really are. It does take time, so enjoy being curious as there is no need to rush your sexuality.

Personally, I think that if you still have this feelings like this for another 6-12 months, you are probably bi. And if you are, that's great. Don't worry about coming out. It is an incredibly hard thing to do, and while most people know I'm bi, I still cannot tell my parents, and have decided myself to tell them when I get a boyfriend. But don't worry about the girlfriend thing, I've had a girlfriend since being out, and if she does actually love you she'll overlook your sexuality. Also, coming out is the only way you can actively look for a boyfriend too.

I know I've waffled a bit here, but you sound like you're in a very similar position to where I was this time last year and I wanted to help. I hope I have, but if you want to discuss anything else just PM me. Good luck. :D

[Kitty Purry]

Ok, well I you are indeed bi, there's nothing wrong with that:). But lf you do find a guy that you do like, you don't have to tell everyone your bi. In fact you don't have to tell anyone except him. You could just keep your relationship private.