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hardasrock63
June 5th, 2010, 04:41 PM
im 14 and gay and i like my friend anthony. ive known him for a few years and he was the first person i told i was gay too. ive told him i liked him twice. first time reaction was tht he liked me as brother, not like tht. second time he said he liked girls. (btw hes 12). so my question is, do i just forget about liking him and try to find other people? or do i try a lil to see if he'll at least experiment somehow or something? ty :)

Eskimo
June 5th, 2010, 05:05 PM
I'm in the same boat as you, thats happened to the past 2 boys i've told.

also, I'm sorry to say that if its been this long, he would've wanted to experiment by now, so i think it would be best to move on.

CantBeTamed
June 5th, 2010, 08:59 PM
[QUOTE=Eskimo;907768

also, I'm sorry to say that if its been this long, he would've wanted to experiment by now, so i think it would be best to move on.[/QUOTE]

This Says It All

Taylorxbox
June 5th, 2010, 09:13 PM
Just time to move on. I think he would have done it already

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jimmycouch14
June 5th, 2010, 09:51 PM
I think I would let it go and like him as a really good friend. He doesn’t sound interested so don’t push it. That way you will still have a really good friend, just not in the way you want now.

Kitty Purry
June 7th, 2010, 04:16 PM
Ok he claims to be straight, there's nothing you can do to change that. He's always gonna be like that. And if he wanted to experiment I beleive he wouldve already done so. Hope I helped:D

Jordan
June 15th, 2010, 12:32 AM
i think that u should put out, say sumthing like, can i suck ur penis or do u want to have sex, i did and it was great, multiple times, and if he says no then move on

Scarface
June 15th, 2010, 01:46 AM
Well I don't know if this will be of much help now, but I think you should just move on to find another boy. Not all boys are willing to experiment. There are some boys out there though. I have been turned down once, but just remain friends with him. Now if he decides that he wants to try it out then that's the green light.

I'm sure you will find a guy to experiment, just don't try to make him do it he claims he's straight. So you might not be able to change that.

Haydzzz
June 16th, 2010, 02:13 AM
might be best to move on mate.

zcornett
June 17th, 2010, 10:59 PM
I wouldn't push it if i were you. Just wait and see if he comes to like you or not. I would look for other people, but not give up on him.

DanielBoy
July 7th, 2010, 01:47 AM
I think he is a little embarrassed. There are a few things to think about. One, he maybe not developed enough to produce semen, and has not really done much self discovery yet. Two, he could be a little embarrassed because he knows you are most likely farther along than him. Three, he may not even know he is curious. Four, he maybe strait.

If you like him that much, you should give him some time to discover himself. When he is 14, he should probably have a good idea, but who knows if he will be open, for instance I have not been openly bi until the last few months. Just remind him every few months, and give him time. If he is strait, that is that; don't push the point, or touch him until both of you are okay with it, if he even comes around.

Hope this helps.