why is it that older guys like me?

[justsomekid]

I like don't exactly look like a guy when I'm out.. I have longer hair and dress casually. I always get uys who aren't from the neighborhood saying shit when I'm out. It's never guys my age. It's always ones older than me. Well anyway I was at a party like as a girl and it seemed they really were looking at me like attracted to me other guys my age never think anything of me just some other dude with long hair. It's like just because I'm small they find me attractive. I'm not even 5 ft. I'd think they'd just think I was some little kid not anything attractive. I mean wat is it with them?

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anyone want to answer at all?

[Hollywood]

You have to be patient. Not everyone who reads the thread has an answer.

Anyways, some guys look as "petite" girls as extremely attractive. That's basically it. Guys your age may not like you because they are so young. They're confused, basically, they don't know what they want. I wouldn't worry about it, unless these guys are old, like in the over 20 range.

[expt]

Anytime I meet a any man that I like she in return starts to like me and shows signs of attraction.There's more then one guy who was playing punch up with his friend in front of me and touches my elbow anytime he sees me.

[justsomekid]

You have to be patient. Not everyone who reads the thread has an answer.

Anyways, some guys look as "petite" girls as extremely attractive. That's basically it. Guys your age may not like you because they are so young. They're confused, basically, they don't know what they want. I wouldn't worry about it, unless these guys are old, like in the over 20 range.

I'ma guy but I get what you mean.
They're attracted to m size rather than how young I really am.

[Hollywood]

I'ma guy but I get what you mean.
They're attracted to m size rather than how young I really am.

Oh, I'm sorry about the confusion. Wasn't paying much attention. Once again, my apologies.

[justsomekid]

it's all right.

[Art_dude]

Are you saying you went to the party in drag, and older guys hit on you? I'm just a little confused at what you're asking. I'm with Tyler on this one. Some guys are simply attracted to smaller, 'petite' girls. Maybe it's an aesthetic thing, but smaller girls seem to be more approachable for some people. I would personally be pretty happy if anyone was approaching me at parties XD

[justsomekid]

Are you saying you went to the party in drag, and older guys hit on you? I'm just a little confused at what you're asking. I'm with Tyler on this one. Some guys are simply attracted to smaller, 'petite' girls. Maybe it's an aesthetic thing, but smaller girls seem to be more approachable for some people. I would personally be pretty happy if anyone was approaching me at parties XD

well not just thyen it's always just like when I'm not wearing make up that they are always like trying to talk to me like I'm some girl their age

[Art_dude]

There are three different things that come to mind then: one is that some of them are genuinely interested in you, some are very likely curious about drag and their sexual identity so they want to approach you, and lastly they (as terrible as it is) might be making fun of you in some way. I know that when there was a rumor going around in middle school that I was Bi, tons of guys were suddenly around me, usually of those three categories. You seem to be pretty hung up on this. Does it bother you, or are you just curious why there's sudden interest?

[Jamie]

Odds are if the men are significantly older they're ephebophiles.

[justsomekid]

There are three different things that come to mind then: one is that some of them are genuinely interested in you, some are very likely curious about drag and their sexual identity so they want to approach you, and lastly they (as terrible as it is) might be making fun of you in some way. I know that when there was a rumor going around in middle school that I was Bi, tons of guys were suddenly around me, usually of those three categories. You seem to be pretty hung up on this. Does it bother you, or are you just curious why there's sudden interest?


I don't dress in drag everyday. I just dress casual. I just dressed that way that day because I was going to a party with my ex and well I wanted to just make him more comfortable with his friends knowing about us. It's not really a thing at all I'm interested into. I mean there will always be older guys that make fun of guys my age but it doesn't seem like it here. I didn't even wear a dress or anything I just wore make up.

[scuba steve]

ok i'm confused, what gender are you? you talk about dressing in drag so that makes me think your male and your status is male, but then your profile has all photos of woman and you have comments stating in 1st person narrative?

[justsomekid]

ok i'm confused, what gender are you? you talk about dressing in drag so that makes me think your male and your status is male, but then your profile has all photos of woman and you have comments stating in 1st person narrative?

Those are my pics and yeah I am a guy. I'm 13 so yea obviously I'm young looking what does that matter..

[justsomekid]

Odds are if the men are significantly older they're ephebophiles.

what's that mean

[scuba steve]

Those are my pics and yeah I am a guy. I'm 13 so yea obviously I'm young looking what does that matter..

i'm not trying to troll but mate you honestly do look so female in those photos i was just confused....:confused:

[Wtficus]

maybe they're all gay

[justsomekid]

i'm not trying to troll but mate you honestly do look so female in those photos i was just confused....:confused:

well that's what I kind of don't understand why so many think I'm a viable choice when I obviously look too young and it doesn't seem like they know honestly.

maybe they're all gay

well I know that but it's just that I thought gays go for there own age don't they.

[Wtficus]

well that's what I kind of don't understand why so many think I'm a viable choice when I obviously look too young and it doesn't seem like they know honestly.



well I know that but it's just that I thought gays go for there own age don't they.

maybe they're all gay pedophiles

[justsomekid]

mabe

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[justsomekid]

They are attracted to you. The answer could be as simple as that, or it could be more complicated. You aren't very clear. You talk in some posts about being masculine, and not wanting to be a girl "at all". Here you say you were out as a girl. Here you talk about "older guys" "saying shit". I wouldn't worry about other people at the moment, focus on figuring yourself out. Who you are, and how you live your life, and other things will fall into place.



Not really just my sexuality is masculine that it comes off as masculine but I've never really felt either gender. but thanks for your comments guys.

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[Art_dude]

Not really just my sexuality is masculine that it comes off as masculine but I've never really felt either gender. but thanks for your comments guys.

o.k., so now you're saying you're feeling androgynous? An even better reason for NOT taking hormone treatments like you mentioned in your other thread.
You clearly have a lot of soul searching and figuring out to do. And part of that could very much be helped by seeing a psychologist as mentioned. Namely someone who specializes in gender identity. We can only assume what you're feeling, and give you theoretically sound advice, but someone who really knows what they're talking about is more beneficial than asking for our opinion. I think it's great that you're here for some support (and you should definitely continue to come here for that) but we can't answer these larger questions for you.

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[justsomekid]

o.k., so now you're saying you're feeling androgynous? An even better reason for NOT taking hormone treatments like you mentioned in your other thread.
You clearly have a lot of soul searching and figuring out to do. And part of that could very much be helped by seeing a psychologist as mentioned. Namely someone who specializes in gender identity. We can only assume what you're feeling, and give you theoretically sound advice, but someone who really knows what they're talking about is more beneficial than asking for our opinion. I think it's great that you're here for some support (and you should definitely continue to come here for that) but we can't answer these larger questions for you.

no like I said my sexuallity is masculine as in I like girls. I'm mostly straight. However, I still don't feel male or female and I guess I act mostly in a feminine attitude not masculine.

[justsomekid]

You're welcome. What have your parents done for yout o help you with this?

they're coming along as best they can