I cheated and I'm only 13.

[RazzaB]

Well, this is my first post and it isn't good, I cheated on my girlfriend. She doesn't know, I feel so guilty. I'm thirteen and cheating on my girlfriend, I was going out with her for 5 month and 20 days. It was a kinda dry relationship. No sex really. I guess I was bored, me and my friend was campin out with 2 girls. One of the girls I've talked to for awhile, very nice lass. We had a lot of convosation, ect. Just casual talk, my friend and his girl well they was close up, I was close up to the girl I was with it was kind of mine and my friends plan. We was in the tent, I came up with see if I can get my mate in luck I said "Anyone up for dares"? I winked at my friend he goes I'm up, the other lasses after agreed. I dared my friend to "Snog". (Get off with) The girl he was hanging with. He did with no problems. 5 seconds, no tongs. He dared the same back, I felt alive and I said to myself "why not"? I kissed the girl, I kinda got passionate about it. I started sticking my tounge in.. That was the end. The kick was amazing, I'd never had felt such a buzz, I actually loved it. Later in the night I was laid on the girls lap, and I started stroking/tickling her thigh in a way. Yeah. I later felt guilty I finished it, and she doesn't know. Yeahh.. I just don't know how to deal with how much of a prick I feel Haha, I know I'm young but come on it may affect my mental stage later in life. I feel a twat for it, so what's your advice?

[chrissm]

My advice is forget about it. It was just a kiss, its not the end of the world, people have done worse things before now. But if you are serious with your girlfriend then learn from your feelings of guilt and dont do it again. You are 13, if she is the same age then there shouldnt need to be sex in your relationship, there's plenty of time for that.

[RazzaB]

It wasn't just a kiss though :(. I don't wanna say the rest :/. Cus it's kinda bad.

[1_21Guns]

congrats.
you made a mistake.
your human.
and no amount of kicking yourself is going to make that mistake not of happened.
naturally you feel guilty.
so there you go. you can't stand the feeling you get from cheating.
so don't do it again.
your young and stupid. (no offence ment there, just saying :P)
it happens.

[Jess]

don't worry everyone makes mistakes. you're young and you will learn from this and not cheat again :)

[RazzaB]

2 years and I'm 15 :)(y)' gotta admit the amount of buzz you get from it is awesome :).

[TigerLily]

gotta admit the amount of buzz you get from it is awesome :) .
Well firstly you shouldn't be all smiley about it. ^
Secondly, you need to tell her what happened.
And don't go feeling sorry for yourself that you feel guilty, because she'll feel worse.
She deserves to know, and she deserves better than you.

EDIT: you finished it, sorry, skim-read the thread >.<

[ericboi]

Well firstly you shouldn't be all smiley about it. ^
Secondly, you need to tell her what happened.
And don't go feeling sorry for yourself that you feel guilty, because she'll feel worse.
She deserves to know, and she deserves better than you.

EDIT: you finished it, sorry, skim-read the thread >.<

Don't tell your girlfriend about what happened. I don't know what good it would do. It might make you feel a little better but it's probably going to make her feel bad. Maybe you should just learn from what happened when the next girl comes along.

[Jordan...14]

congrats.
you made a mistake.
your human.
and no amount of kicking yourself is going to make that mistake not of happened.
naturally you feel guilty.
so there you go. you can't stand the feeling you get from cheating.
so don't do it again.
your young and stupid. (no offence ment there, just saying :P)
it happens.

thats true

Well firstly you shouldn't be all smiley about it. ^
Secondly, you need to tell her what happened.
And don't go feeling sorry for yourself that you feel guilty, because she'll feel worse.
She deserves to know, and she deserves better than you.

EDIT: you finished it, sorry, skim-read the thread >.<

but so is that. the best thing to do is tell her and hopefully she'll understand.

[pixie1234]

the best thing to do is tell your girlfriend. im afraid i never been in this situation so i cant really help but just tell her it was a game of dares that went wrong, if she loves you ahe will forgive you
good luck xx

[Jordan...14]

something like this just happened with two friends of mine ... on saturday. he cheated on his girlfriend with a girl then friend of the girl told his girlfriend and it all went tits up. you really don't want that happening.

[swimfreak85]

if u like the girl u kissed explain to ur present girlfriend tht ur not feelin the same way u hav thn wait like a week or two thn explain to the new girl after the kiss uve had a feeling for her and ask her out

[Clawhammer]

Just admit it, you did something stupid, you made a prick of yourself. Tell her, and beg for mercy. No good way out of this.

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[The Dark Lord]

I wouldn't worry about it, I've done worst

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[soccer8]

i know alot of people who are 13 and cheated just dont do it again

[Ryhanna]

Man up and tell your girlfriend.

She deserves to know - She's your GIRLFRIEND. If she finds out secondhand, she'll be ever more mad at you and you know it. It could also impact on future, more serious relationships... Honesty man, I suggest you learn about it.

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[ilovegirls15]

that sucks! but your young and going to make mistakes. But id tell your gf b4 she finds out from somebody else

[sadisticallyGORGEOUS]

Dude I cheated on the guy im going out with now with his best mate. we got incredibly drunk nd hooked up nd...yee, nd guess wat im 13 too.
We both told my bf and he understood nd we're still together..
Yooh need to tell ur gf, nd stop worrying abwt it, ur a guy (no offense) but ur srsly gonna do worse in ur life..ur only a kid, ur gf will forgive yooh..
i hope it all goes well.
=) peace out..

[staying_alive]

Dude, you need to calm yourself down. What you did is "cheating", but trust me there are definitely worse things you can do in a relationship. If you want to tell your girlfriend you can, and I think you should ONLY IF she'll find out from someone else. If there's NO chance she'll find out, don't tell her. Is it morally correct? Probably not. But you're 13, not 35 and married with kids. You kissed another girl, not a big deal.

[MyNameIsJack]

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[Hatsune Miku]

I just don't understand what goes through cheaters minds.
Here I am giving my life for the girl I love
While other people treat it all like a game

It disgusts me.

Hopefully you wont ever do it again

When you cheat, It's a lose-lose situation. You both get hurt.
If you think that your current relationship isn't going too well, then talk to her about it and try to fix the problems
Cheating will do nothing and will leave you guilty, and the one you're with mad, heartbroken, confused, and more