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JaiBrazier
June 2nd, 2010, 06:51 PM
A lot of people are saying to find your sexuality you need to have sex with both sexes, male and female. That is not true, it all about feelings and how you think about other people, other genders, not having sex! Most people who have said this to me say "you need to have explored everything with both sexes first", there are straight, bi and gay people out there who haven't even had sex yet and know there sexuality. People who think this, please reply to the post and tell me...Why!?!?!

Sage
June 2nd, 2010, 06:57 PM
Uhh, anybody who says that is an idiot and doesn't deserve a thread about them.

ThomasB.
June 3rd, 2010, 01:47 AM
A lot of people are saying to find your sexuality you need to have sex with both sexes, male and female. That is not true, it all about feelings and how you think about other people, other genders, not having sex! Most people who have said this to me say "you need to have explored everything with both sexes first", there are straight, bi and gay people out there who haven't even had sex yet and know there sexuality. People who think this, please reply to the post and tell me...Why!?!?!

Yeah, me and Jai had a huge argument with some guy about this. He was saying that you have to "fully explore anything out of the norm" but I could think of a million things to say to that.:mad:

chrissm
June 3rd, 2010, 02:41 AM
You know what turns you on, and what sort of things you would be keen or willing to do if the opportunity and circumstances seemed right. You dont need to have actually done things to know that you would do them.

Peace God
June 3rd, 2010, 12:04 PM
lol who says that?

BeautifulDisaster
June 3rd, 2010, 03:02 PM
Anyone who says that is stupid.

bmurdock60
June 3rd, 2010, 03:15 PM
that is the stupidest thing i have heard for a long time

ShatteredWings
June 3rd, 2010, 03:21 PM
>.> People still use this logic?

The Joker
June 3rd, 2010, 03:53 PM
I like guys, I've never had sex with one though...stupid person.

Hollister17
June 4th, 2010, 03:33 PM
A lot of people are saying to find your sexuality you need to have sex with both sexes, male and female. That is not true, it all about feelings and how you think about other people, other genders, not having sex! Most people who have said this to me say "you need to have explored everything with both sexes first", there are straight, bi and gay people out there who haven't even had sex yet and know there sexuality. People who think this, please reply to the post and tell me...Why!?!?!

You don't have to have sex with a guy or a girl just to tell if your attracted to that sex. Just talking to someone is enough to figure it out. Makeingout with someone is good to.

Bawnji
June 4th, 2010, 04:17 PM
Sexual Orientation is found by what a person desires.
However, a deeper choice can be made if one decides to view both sides.

JaiBrazier
June 4th, 2010, 08:45 PM
The people who said this are stupid and have no idea in life :/

Sogeking
June 4th, 2010, 09:14 PM
A lot of people are saying to find your sexuality you need to have sex with both sexes, male and female. That is not true, it all about feelings and how you think about other people, other genders, not having sex! Most people who have said this to me say "you need to have explored everything with both sexes first", there are straight, bi and gay people out there who haven't even had sex yet and know there sexuality. People who think this, please reply to the post and tell me...Why!?!?!

WTF! thats the stupidest thing i ever heard

Hockeyplayer1
June 4th, 2010, 11:35 PM
Hmm. . . What if I woke up one day and said today Im goin to be Catholic * which I am*
But I didnt totally understand what I was tagging myself as. IE the customs and background of the beliefs held strongly and highly respected by Catholics. IE Fish on Fridays thing. I just decided one day that I was gonna be Catholic. OR Protistant or Jewish. . . On and on and on. I think thats more the issue. People labeling themselves to get recognition without having a clue. Just my opinion. Im entitled to it.

JaiBrazier
June 5th, 2010, 05:21 PM
The everyone who wants to know... the guy above me is the one who said it .... :)....

...enjoy...