pregnant :S

[pixie1234]

im 14 and i think i may be pregnant with my ex who is 15.

if im right im 3 weeks in and i havent taken a test yet. i have loads of the symptons - small slight bump bump, sore swollen breasts, skipped period, mood swings, cravings cramps ect and i also feel weird, different - however i have no idea where i can get a test.

if my mum finds out she will kick me out of the house so asking her is out of the question. i have no money either and i cant ask my ex for a loan as he wont speak to me till i know for sure. please help. is there anywhere i can get a test for free?

thanks
ashleigh :/

btw sorry if this is in the wrong bit feel free to move if nessacerry

[chrissm]

Do you have a school nurse or counsellor, I'm sure they would tell you where to go for a test. If you test positive then obviously your mum will need to know, really its unlikely she would kick you out, she might be disappointed but you're still her daughter and she will only want to help you make the best choices going forwards.

[YesterdaysNews]

Sexual health clinics may be able to give you a test for free. If you are pregnant, you'll have to tell your mom eventually, she'll notice. She'd be more worried about your and the baby's health than the disappointment she may feel.
Good luck :hug:

[The Madness.]

You can also talk to one of your friends mom's, if you feel close enough to one.

[UnknownError]

You should be able to got a free test from your GP or a clinic near you.
You will hav to let your mum know eventually. Don't worry about it to much.

Good luck hun. x

[CrazyGaga]

sexual health clinics and school nurses normally give out free pregnancy tests! they also give out free contraception, u shud use it nxt time! :D

[pixie1234]

heyy, thanks to everyone here who posted.

last night i told my ex who was scared and told his mum. i then got a call from him saying that his mum was annoyed at me and if i didnt get a test by the end of the evening her and my ex's dad would come over. so heres me sat outside my house crying on the phone and my dad pulls up back from the cinema with my sister. in the end i told my dad who told my mum and he got a test. thankfully it came back negative but my ex's mum thinks i was playing him about witch i wasnt so now me and my mum thinks she told him not to talk to me as i havent heard from him all day :/

and also to Kan3.D, we were but the condom split :S :/

again thankyou so much
ashleigh xx

[Hollywood]

heyy, thanks to everyone here who posted.

last night i told my ex who was scared and told his mum. i then got a call from him saying that his mum was annoyed at me and if i didnt get a test by the end of the evening her and my ex's dad would come over. so heres me sat outside my house crying on the phone and my dad pulls up back from the cinema with my sister. in the end i told my dad who told my mum and he got a test. thankfully it came back negative but my ex's mum thinks i was playing him about witch i wasnt so now me and my mum thinks she told him not to talk to me as i havent heard from him all day :/

and also to Kan3.D, we were but the condom split :S :/

again thankyou so much
ashleigh xx

Glad things worked out for you. Close call, no doubt. I'm also glad to hear you were using protection. The problem may have been that it wasn't put on right, but sometimes condoms just fuck up. Nonetheless, if it ever happens again, I would go to your doctor or school nurse as soon as possible to prevent a big blowout like the one that happened.

[iamniokekun]

Try the school.

[Kaius]

Mkay, well as shes got her answer now :locked: