View Full Version : Anal sex phobia?
Daracon
June 1st, 2010, 09:56 PM
I like guys in thesense I would want to be more than just friends then them I have been thinking about this for about 2 years now I also like girls which make me suspect that I am bi but I can't get over the sex with guys thing like gay porn arouses me but I can't get over picturing me doing it can anyone give
me a first hand experience of what it's like to have anal with a guy so I can overcome my phobia persey icant think of the words right nowbut does someone catch my drift lol I'm using iPod sorry for mistakes thanks guys.
Nickk XD
June 1st, 2010, 10:00 PM
I am unable to give you detailed specifics, in order to comply with site rules; however, I will give you information I know.
Also please note I have never had anal sex but have many, many friends involved in these acts.
First encounters can be extremely painful. Please note that the anus is meant for one way traffic and too much anal sex can lead to "leaky anus" which basically means the sphincter muscle that holds in feces may stop working. This is one reason why it is very, very important to use lube. Lube will not prevent this problem but it will make it more enjoyable and you'll go longer without this problem.
Basically, it's a comfort issue. Determine who is "top", the one inserting the penis, or the "bottom" the one accepting the penis.
Don't do it if you are not comfortable.
chrissm
June 2nd, 2010, 03:06 AM
Well, without going into details, you can experiment a bit on your own, it feels pretty good for lots of guys.
max4
August 8th, 2010, 06:44 AM
Just want to say be relax and be ready for a lot of pain
wingman3434
August 8th, 2010, 07:06 AM
Im told it hurts a shit load the first time
Kaius
August 8th, 2010, 07:29 AM
Don't bump this is 2 months old :locked:
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