Wanting a baby (young)

[Kaya]

Im 13 years old and I want a baby. Ive felt like this since 5th grade. Ive thought about everything. Financial issues, education, pain, time, and all that stuff. I am very mature for my age and I can take classes online. I understand that I am too young to have a baby. Im still a virgin and it will stay like that until Im married. Ive tried sports and Ive taken care of those dolls that are like real babies, too. I know its normal to feel like this... I just dont know what to do..how can I make it go away?

[maczed]

even though you may want one it's not a good idea. Just go along with your life as it is now and have one in your 20s or whenever you get your life settled

[justsomekid]

kind of the same for me but I don't even know if I could ever have a kid or not so yea.. You know you shouldn't have a kid until you're married and older. I mean you said that you realize all the pain and problems people have when they're young. Keep up that standards of not marrying until you're married you can't go wrong there.

[Blood]

I think it's your maternal instinct kicking in, Kayla. You want a baby but you're just too young :[ Your body can't handle it. Just try to go on with your life, and I know that's easier said then done.

[CathyChatty]

i think its good to stay a virgin becuase if you want a baby know think about the dad would he want to stay and take care of the baby? and then are you gonna be abel to go out to the mall with your friends and have funn with a baby?i dont think so..so just tstay a virgin still your married and it will eventually go away of the felling

[Patchy]

I would wait until you are out of school. Being a pupil thats a mum is not a good thing also you want to make sure your relationship with your significant other is stable.

Wait a few years till your 18 and see if your still sure then.

[sara1220]

you may want a kid now but you will be missing out on your entire teenage life!!!!!! I had that feeling once, and then I started babysitting my neighbors 4 & 2 yr old kids and realized that watching little kids is not something i can tolerate for more than 2 or 3 hours. try getting a babysitting job babysitting little kids i seriously think that it helps you get past that want very quickly!

[LiveLaughLovex]

I say wait cause when you have a baby young it is hard for you to achieve your dreams and go to college and live your life!so please wait

[Fact]

Please don't bump old threads.

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