School is coming to an end. Need some help.

[Mikee]

I am a 17, a junior in high school. Our school ends in about two weeks.

In one of my classes there is a girl who I have known since freshmen year that I am pretty good friends with. She has a boyfriend. Everyday before class i meet her at her locker and we walk to class together. I have never hung out with her outside of school before.

Well school is coming to an end now and I do like her and would like to keep a strong friendship during the summer. I have a few thing that I would like advice about.

First is: I'd like to kind of say something or do something on the last day of school that will make her think of me or miss me during the summer. But I don't want it to be too over the top because she does have a boyfriend and I honestly dont want her too feel awkward. Not sure if thats the best way to put it.

Second is: I have her number and want to ask her to hang out sometime but this is an area I need some help in too. I have a core group of friends i hang out with a lot and we all hang out together at each others house. The only time I usually hang out with other people besides them is at parties and stuff, which this girl does not go to.

What is the best way to ask her to hang out? Should I bring some of my friends? Should she have hers?

Another things is I dont really know what to do. When Im with my friends we will play CoD or shoot some hoops or something. I dont know if I should invite her over to my house. But I dont know if there is much for her to do here and I dont want her to just be bored. Im not really sure what would be a good thing that would keep her not bored. Id like to do something more active than just sitting at a restaurant or in a theater.

Sorry if this is a bit confusing. Im not too good at putting my thoughts down in writing lol. I can provide more info if needed.

Would appreciate any help, thanks,
Mike

[beedubs]

tell her that you want to hang out durring the summer, and make sure you follow through. i know plenty of times ive said to people "o lets hang out this summer" and we never do. so follow through and maybe you guys can get closer. you ask her what she likes to do, then go do that. maybe you can go for a walk, go to a park, if she likes sports play a CASUAL game of sports (dont be competative). maybe go get pizza or ice cream or something. since she has a bf, dont make it like a date, just a friendly thing (who knows maybe one day youll get a date with her) i dont think you should hang out with her and your friends at first, just you to. dont let her become bored, dont sit and watch tv, video games, ect. if you have a pool, go in. if you dont and theres a pool nearby, go. msg me if you need anymore advice

[janthem]

jus ask to hang out to like the movies n all through summer just like text or video chat with her but after a while I would tell her how u feel bout her but say it in a way tht makes it seem like ur pushy. try to tell her tht u like her n just wanted to get it off ur chest n tht u would respect the fact tht she has a bf n will still want to stay friends but good luck wit her!

[Kitty Purry]

In my opinion the beat thing you could do, is say "hey we should hang out sometime this summer". Like some previous posts have said, many times people don't follow through so a day out of the summer text and see what's up. Build a friendship. Now when you actually start hanging out, I'd say don't make it like a date. Make it something casual that'd be fun, an something she's intrested in. An don't have her hang out with your friends! IMO it'd proabably be better if you actually hung out with her an her friends. Soo personally that's how I would deal with the situation. And remember she has a boyfriend so don't do something stuipid:).


EDIT- I think a really good place for you guys to hang out is the mall:D. That's where I always hang out, and it's pretty casual. So it'd work for your situation:).

[OhMightyLion]

First is: I'd like to kind of say something or do something on the last day of school that will make her think of me or miss me during the summer. But I don't want it to be too over the top because she does have a boyfriend and I honestly dont want her too feel awkward. Not sure if thats the best way to put it.

Second is: I have her number and want to ask her to hang out sometime but this is an area I need some help in too. I have a core group of friends i hang out with a lot and we all hang out together at each others house. The only time I usually hang out with other people besides them is at parties and stuff, which this girl does not go to.

Ok, so you want to say/do something on the last day of school that will make her miss/think of you during the summer...Well, you can either start singing a song (one that's in now, that will be playing this summe ron the radio) every time you're with her, hence making he rthink of you when she listens to the song during the radio. You can also do somehting memorable (spelled correctly?)..lets say it starts raining and you're with her, starts to sing or dance in the rain or something that will stick un her mind.


Ok, so you have her number and you want to hang out with her during the summer. You can invite a small amount of friends (including her of course) to the pool (if you have acess to one) Or get together at your house to watch movies...the point is try to do alot of activties this summer and try to invite her to hang out. You can call her somedays during the afternoon and just say your bored and start talking, you cna even text her and tell her you're bored and ask her if you wanna play the question game (you ask her a question and she answers and so do you, she asks a question and you both answer, repeat.) Or just chat a while on messenger...

BUT be CAREFUL, she has a boyfriend and you wouldn't want a problem to start cause you're hanging/talking to her tooooo much. Keep some distance (shows respect) but start a friendship with her and keep it moving!!

[DanielBoy]

If you two are that good of friends in school, just start texting her. At some point, just casually ask, "Hey, you wanna hang out?" . Simple as that. I have had the problem in the past, but when you see how easy it is, you wont have it ever again.

Hope this helps. :)

[Jennifer's Ashes]

Go to the beach with a bunch of friends, invite her too, but not her boyfriend. That way u can hang with her and shit, so you can see if you two might work out and some day she might feel the same way about you.