I don't want a one night stand.

[Eskimo]

I'm young, I know, everyone here is, and I'm really anxious for, well sexual activity, but, I want more than that, I know this all probably sounds crazy because I'm 15 but I can't help but think of the joy loving a boy, and him loving me back, would bring me, is it wrong to think this at this age?

[morris13624]

It's totally normal actually I am feeling the exact same way you are and it really has me caught up between two great girls but its just really hard to find any one that is looking for a good time but actually wants a relationship (or vice versa) in your teenage years. The one main problem is is that when you are able to find some one that wants that relationship and wants to be close they are almost never into sexual activity. It is definitely not wrong for you to think like that...its what a lot of teens want but can never make happen. Just keep looking until you find some one you feel is right for you.

[BlackBetty]

No, it's absoloutley normal.. Like you said, you don't want a one night stand, but you want someone to love.

Just find someone, that you can relate the most too, and someone that you love. Don't find someone just because your desperate.

[Eskimo]

Well I can relate to a lot of my guy friends, but they're straight, and I'm just not sure where to turn to.

[beedubs]

its wrong to feel that way. just find a boy you truly have feelings for and see how it works out. its just like any other relationship. if your looking to meet people see if your school has a GSA or any places for gay teens in your area.

[Blood]

its wrong to feel that way. just find a boy you truly have feelings for and see how it works out. its just like any other relationship. if your looking to meet people see if your school has a GSA or any places for gay teens in your area.

It's not wrong to feel that way. You can't help wanting sexual activity, whether it's with the sae or opposite sex. It's the way humans are.

But you should go looking for someone just because of this. Wait till you find a guy you have true feelings for. Or maybe he'll find you.

[Art_dude]

I'm young, I know, everyone here is, and I'm really anxious for, well sexual activity, but, I want more than that, I know this all probably sounds crazy because I'm 15 but I can't help but think of the joy loving a boy, and him loving me back, would bring me, is it wrong to think this at this age?

My god. What have we come to in this day and age, when perfectly great people like this this guy are afraid of being perceived as weird for wanting a loving relationship instead of meaningless sex? OF COURSE it's normal to want to have a loving relationship where your partner loves you back. Sex shouldn't be something completely meaningless. I'm not gonna be one of those unrealistic people to say you should only have sex with someone you love - it would be wrong to say that (and a lot of people would die before finding true love for that to happen lol). Flings can be fun. But sex with someone you love is so much more meaningful.

[emt.Cam]

There's absolutely nothing wrong with the way you're feeling. You want to feel loved from another individual and want a committed relationship. You're fine son, you'll find a lot of people don't give a hoot about a relationship, find the person that cares.

[DeEnd]

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[soccer8]

i dont believe it is wrong i just believe you need to wairt

[Ryhanna]

perfectly normal its humanity, really isnt it?
To want to love and be loved back? Yeah.