Help me!!

[xRAPiiDG4MERx]

Ok, well i went out with this girl, called harley, then we broke up, we got together through this girl called lauren, who is my best friend, and harley and lauren are friends, ive falled in love with lauren (my best friend) who is 2 years younger than me btw, and she has just got in a realtionship with this guy who is such a 'player'. hes gone out with loads of girls, and im soooo jelous of him, for being able to go out with lauren after like seeing her 3 times. id do anything for her, and she has just found out that i like her. she was not expecting it, and when i sayd 'do i have a chance with you?' she lust put ':/'. what should i do? i love her, but shes my bestfriend, if she says no, it will change everything for the worse. she feels bad for harley, who still loves me, and her new boyfriend is a d1#k. what should i do? :/ please help me

thanks Josh

btw i have already dumped harley :) thanks

[Scarface]

If you say that if you ask her out ad it will change everything for the worst then my best advice would be just to wait until things get bad with the guy that you said was a dick. Even though you love her you have to be patient even though this guy may be a jerk she may actually like him.

If things go bad you can talk to her and get closer and maybe work up to asking her out. As for your other friend if you don't have the same feelings for her as you do Lauren then just wait for your time to come. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here shoot me a VM anytime. Good luck

[Contra]

Why don't you talk to Lauren and tell her what you think about the dude she's dating? Maybe she'll see what you see and stop seeing him. Then she can think better about if you would have a chance with her.
In relation to Harley, do you love her? If you don't, then maybe you should break up with her, and go for a chance with Lauren, that is, if she gives you the green light.

Good luck! :)

[Gumleaf]

i think the best thing you can do is take a step back and look at things from lauren's perspective. she's probably upset that you and her friend have broken up, and when you are in a new relationship it's unlikely that anything that anyone says will change their mind about the person including their best friend. so i would suggest that for the time being you try and put your feelings aside, and try and continue how things have always been and be lauren's best friend. if this guy is a player, it's unlikely the relationship will last so you are probably still a chance to be with lauren in the future.

[zoom zoom]

well..... you kinda dropped a bomb on her. i think you should talk to her. but at the same time she could feel what you feel or she could feel that you are like a brother to her or something. i think you should give her a break. you just broke up with her friend, and now yo say you like her. that would seem kinda weird for her. i think you should just talk, and try not to make anything awkward. once you think something is going to be awkward it will be. so goodluck bud.

[xRAPiiDG4MERx]

thanks everyone, and lauren and her bf broke up after 4 days, cause he was cheating, and my m8 who is m8s with her, sayd that shes interested in me :D so thanks for the help guys, and as for harley? well, her and my other friend jordan (guy) are now going out, so that wont make lauren feel as bad, I LOVE THIS WEBSITE AND ALL THE PEOPLE IN IT xxxxxxxxxxxx