stresses

[ackmedsgirl666]

i am unsure as what to do anymore. there is this girl that i know who i live with and she came out to me as bisexual about a month ago. we started dating and things were going good but then she dumped me 8 ( 9 times last night) because she has feelings for another guy she knows. the thing is this. she keeps coming back and im getting stressed over it because everytime she comes back she ends up dumping me again. I don't want this anymore. i don't want to hurt her because i know she still loves me and i still like her but i don't know how to move on away from her.
can anyone help me out?

[Fruit_Tart.]

i think you should tell her how you feel about the situation. tell her what you think about what she's doing. try your best not to hurt her too much, but some people need a push to get them going where you want them to. but just invite her to do something with her a day and get yourselves alone and just talk. i dunno what else can help and sorry if it didn't help. and i wish you the best of luck. :)

[Scarface]

First of all not to be disrespectful, but 9 times seems like a lot of times to be taking back a girl that just may not be ready yet. I had the same problem I took my ex back after he cheated and I felt like he didn't respect me which he didn't. It's best to just let her find her way because the more you take her back the less she will respect you.

I know you love her and this will be kind of hard to let her go, but it would help you two out because it's less stress and both of you have your freedom. You just have to find it in yourself to let her make the decisions that she is going to make whether those make her or break her if that makes sense. This isn't a very healthy relationship. You have to know when it's time to let go.

You just have to tell her that it would be best if you two went your separate ways because you think it's the best decision for the both of you. I hope everything works out for you if you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here. Send me a VM/Pm anytime.