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REGRET
May 29th, 2010, 12:46 PM
I just want to get something out of me.
About four weeks ago I started cutting my wrist. I did it because I felt so lonely and like I didn't had any friends. About a week later my friend found out and she didn't try to help me at all. Now I feel lonelier than ever. I just cut more and more and I'm so afraid I might not be able to stop, but I can't help it, it releases my pain.
The saddest thing is that my friend tries to help me but she just makes the situation worse for some reason. About two moths ago I was always happy and hyper, now I'm always down and on the edge of tears.
I just want to know if I'm alone with these feelings.
Please remove if not appropriate.
UnknownError
May 29th, 2010, 01:05 PM
First of, please don't cut your wrist.
Its one of the worst places to cut.
If you need to, cut your arm or leg instead.
Secondly, talk to your friend about it.
It might seem awkward, but she might be worrying about you.
The tears are an after effect, for some people.
Cutting makes things worse, not better.
If you need someone to talk to, send me a private message (PM) or talk to one of the moderators (1_21Guns).
We are all here to help hun. :)
REGRET
May 29th, 2010, 01:12 PM
I have also cut my leg, but it hurts so much it's hard to walk. I know that the wrist is a bad place but I can't help myself.
Thanks, I'll try :)
UnknownError
May 29th, 2010, 01:14 PM
Yeh I know, I cut my leg yesterday and it hurt most of today. But its still better.
And good, I hope she listens. (:
ackmedsgirl666
May 29th, 2010, 01:20 PM
wow
you sound like ur in a similar boat that i was about a year ago.
if your going to cut cut your leg or your upper arms and thighs( as mentioned above)
if you want you can pm me and i can help you out
cutting is never easy and neither is losing a friend( i just lost one)
btw
you are not alone with your feelings
there are lots of people who feel the same way as you( i am one of those many people)
hope i have helped
Fruit_Tart.
May 29th, 2010, 01:21 PM
cutting... its not nessacery although some of us here do it... i used to... like a month ago i was jus so mad and sad i didn't want to express it to anyone and i jus cut... now i see its wrong... if you can don't cut at all... find some way to relieve all your stress and stay calm. you don't need to cut... it leaves ugly scars too sooo thats a reason to stop :P. but really if you need to jus stay in bed all day, if you need to rip every page in a book, if you need to talk to someone, if you jus feel like putting the radio on ultra high, anything but cutting and harming yourself is good... thats all i have to say.
REGRET
May 29th, 2010, 01:38 PM
SheDevil1993:
Thanks, It's nice to know that someone has felt the same as I do now. In my school it seems like I am the only one who don't have any real friends. My school is really small.
HaPPyEmO:
I try to cut less but it's really hard. The scars is the only reason I try to stop.
ackmedsgirl666
May 29th, 2010, 01:42 PM
SheDevil1993:
Thanks, It's nice to know that someone has felt the same as I do now. In my school it seems like I am the only one who don't have any real friends. My school is really small.
HaPPyEmO:
I try to cut less but it's really hard. The scars is the only reason I try to stop.
your welcome
im here to help
and i understand the scars part
i have the names of two of my ex bestfriends on my legs and arm and i fucking regret it and now have to get it removed
i get sad really whenever i look at all the mess i have caused for myself
REGRET
May 29th, 2010, 01:48 PM
your welcome
im here to help
and i understand the scars part
i have the names of two of my ex bestfriends on my legs and arm and i fucking regret it and now have to get it removed
i get sad really whenever i look at all the mess i have caused for myself
Aw, that sucks. I don't even know if my cuts are gonna leave scars. I don't cut that deep but I'm afraid it might get worse and I start cutting deeper and deeper.
dead
May 29th, 2010, 01:50 PM
I now how you feel, I had no friends in my old school which had like 2K people in there. You should maybe get to know some people who are friendly or keep in touch with friends outside of school. You should also try and find other ways to deal with your emotions.
REGRET
May 29th, 2010, 01:59 PM
I now how you feel, I had no friends in my old school which had like 2K people in there. You should maybe get to know some people who are friendly or keep in touch with friends outside of school. You should also try and find other ways to deal with your emotions.
I have many friends on the internet and those actually make me feel better than my friends in real life. That's actually also why I joined this forum - to make friends. :)
dead
May 29th, 2010, 02:01 PM
I have many friends on the internet and those actually make me feel better than my friends in real life. That's actually also why I joined this forum - to make friends. :)
Well then your in the right place for that :)
Mike321
May 29th, 2010, 03:10 PM
As the other have said, if you have to cut try to do it anywhere but your wrists, its really dangerous.
Try talking to your friend about it, she might not know how to handle it or what to do to help you.
You can talk to any of us on here if you need help with anything :)
REGRET
May 29th, 2010, 03:39 PM
As the other have said, if you have to cut try to do it anywhere but your wrists, its really dangerous.
Try talking to your friend about it, she might not know how to handle it or what to do to help you.
You can talk to any of us on here if you need help with anything :)
I think my friend wouldn't understand it, she would probably see me as "pathetic". I think she knows I still cut but ignores it, but I'll try to talk to her :)
And thank you.
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