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jack_ass
May 29th, 2010, 02:44 AM
hi there....19 male her..need help...! i am curious about myself....i just wanna ask if someone can distinguished which one is me... gay? bi? str8?

i just love watching gayporn in many pornsites...its just i feel it boring watching opposite sex having fun with each other... its just i have watch lot of it...

i've been suck by my gay classmates... a couple of tymes and aster that i felt really good...untill one day he ask me to fuck him but i refuse...

i dont want to fuck male, i really dont want also to kiss same gender and i dont also want gay to kiss my top part...just love to be sucked.....i also dont suck... sa wat am i??? help please!

ThomasB.
May 29th, 2010, 09:57 AM
Well you're probably just curious. Unless you would do pretty much anything with the same sex, I would'nt think that you are gay. Only time can tell! ;)

jack_ass
May 30th, 2010, 03:52 AM
well...first i want to tank you for replying...

i guess your right...its becoz...in my entire life i've never felt having a crush on a guy.... i love girls.....but wat can you call a guy enjoying a blow job by same gender? coz i really enjoyed it....

gays are good sucker than women...???

i guess they are??

Hanyo
May 31st, 2010, 01:10 AM
In my humble opinion, you are what you want to be. To me it sounds like you're just quite horny. Watching porn does change your brain. At first straight porn was very exciting right? Its because you watched a lot of it, that your brain built up a tolerance to that type of imagery, so now that you're viewing something different, it seems more interesting because you haven't seen as much of it, and maybe you feel guilty watching it, which does increase your adrenaline level.

It doesn't sound like you're gay to me, because you don't feel attracted to guys, just girls. But I think you were very horny and happened to have a guy friend who would go down on you but no girls available right?

It sounds like you prefer to be fully straight, so I'd recommend to stop having sexual activity with guys, let your gay friends know that you've thought about it and don't want it.
- Next, try to stop watching porn of all types for as long as possible.
- At the same time, try to not m-bate for as long as possible. These two together should help you to re-balance yourself.
- If you start to feel too horny, go ahead an m-bate and try to keep your mind focused on the girls that make you feel the hottest.
- Continue to avoid porn, but m-bate if you have to.
- If your gay friends continue to try to seduce you or go down on you, make sure to m-bate before you meet up with them so you won't feel horny while around them.
- If they're persistent about it despite you telling them your position, tell them that if they continue trying, it will damage your friendship. If they still continue despite your warnings, stop hanging out with them. Friends don't try to coerce friends to do things that they're not comfortable with.

jack_ass
May 31st, 2010, 04:51 AM
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In my humble opinion, you are what you want to be. To me it sounds like you're just quite horny. Watching porn does change your brain. At first straight porn was very exciting right? Its because you watched a lot of it, that your brain built up a tolerance to that type of imagery, so now that you're viewing something different, it seems more interesting because you haven't seen as much of it, and maybe you feel guilty watching it, which does increase your adrenaline level.
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>>yeah...that is all right....i really felt guilty after watching gay porn...

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But I think you were very horny and happened to have a guy friend who would go down on you but no girls available right?
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yes this is also right..!!!!.
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well...a year ago.. i am addicted in m_bation and in watching straight porn...
and i really tried to control myself in watching porn...but i cant help myself...everytyme i am in front of my pc...my brain wanted to see such videos..i stop doing sexual activity with guys about a year already.....it makes me guilty doing such thing..

but i am trying hard to control myself.....

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Eskimo
May 31st, 2010, 08:26 AM
The most likely answer is sexually curious.

Hanyo
June 1st, 2010, 03:08 AM
Jack, I'm glad you found my comments to be helpful :) Yeah, guilt can be quite powerful, and sometimes harmful. The more success you have with self-control the better you will feel, because you will see that you can control what you do, and the guilty feeling will fade. Take care friend :)

BlackBetty
June 1st, 2010, 09:26 PM
Are you emotionally attracted to males? Or are you physically attracted?

There are several factors before you can descide what your sexuality is.

boy15
June 3rd, 2010, 07:07 PM
i dont think youre gay, maybe a bit bi, but nor moore

DeEnd
June 11th, 2010, 02:15 PM
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