I just don't care anymore

[xXdamienXx]

i'm tired of all the stress and pain in my life i'm gonna buy some razor blades w/ my b-day money and cut my freakin' arms to ribbons...and i don't care WHO sees my cuts!!....

[Sith Lord 13]

NO. You don't need them. You don't need to cut. Why don't you tell me what's making you want to cut?

[Nickk XD]

BREATH.

Find someone good to talk to, perhaps even someone here (professional help is always preferred...but).

Cutting is a way of expressing one's depression in a graphic form, usually secretly without anyone knowing. The main reason people cut is because they're unable to express their emotions accurately and easily in other ways (like crying, talking it out, etc).

If you'd like to talk, PM someone.

[1_21Guns]

have you ever cut before?
because if you haven't.
don't you flipping dare.
those people and things aren't worth your pain.
and you'll care who sees those cuts once you've made them.
it's true, the first cut is always the deepest.
its the one that marks in your memory, triggers an addiction.
you dont want to do that hun, believe me. you dont.
cutting will never make anything go away. ever.
please dont do it hun, PM me or anyone.
just don't cut.

[UnknownError]

Same question as Natalie, have you cut before?
Cause its not worth starting.
Don't waste your money.
Don't waste your blood.
Take a deep breath. Talk, everyone here will listen.
Send me a private message (PM) if you want to.
Just don't start.
I cut again yesterday and I wish I hadn't.
Its not worth it,
So please don't cut.

[Mike321]

As the other have asked, have you cut before?
If you havent, dont start its really not worth it
It might seem like it at the time, but in the end its not
Talk to any of us on here if you need help or want to talk
Just dont do it

[xXdamienXx]

I have cut before and i still have scars I honestly don't care anymore about life and who sees my scars I give up....

[1_21Guns]

I have cut before and i still have scars I honestly don't care anymore about life and who sees my scars I give up....

i dont know how old you are, but i can tell you now you'll care when your older.
you'll look back and wish you cared now.
lifes too short to not care.
never give up, because nothing has the right to take your life from you.
try to stay strong hun, i promise it will be worth it in the end.

[xXdamienXx]

strong is something i'm not i tried to stop b4 and failed i'm getting professional help but it isn't doing anything....and i'm 17 btw....

[Obscene Eyedeas]

Hun i know where you are ive cut for years and im 17 soon ive cut nearly 10 years but im finally starting to quit and you can too. at the end of the day there are times when ya maybe we aren't strong enough to quit but most of the time we are and you are too. cutting makes things worse it will only bring you pain later on in life. think about it do you really want scars when you get to that point in life where things finally start to get better. cutting is just never worth it

[xXdamienXx]

i try to stop cutting but the longest ive ever gone is 2 weeks i failed @ that and I fail @ a host of other stuff i just don't C Y i should try when ill most likley fail...

[misery_business]

i try to stop cutting but the longest ive ever gone is 2 weeks i failed @ that and I fail @ a host of other stuff i just don't C Y i should try when ill most likley fail...

You just need to beleive in yourself, of course it's gona be very hard, but you have to try! Just imagine a life without self harm. Think how much better you would be if you didn't have to worry about self harm.
keep trying, if you fail don't put your self down and think that your going to fail everytime, you will stop some day if you just keep trying :) we all want you to be ok :)

[1_21Guns]

i try to stop cutting but the longest ive ever gone is 2 weeks i failed @ that and I fail @ a host of other stuff i just don't C Y i should try when ill most likley fail...

2 weeks is a bloody long time for a cutter you know.
takes a lot of strength to make it to a day, nevermind 2 weeks.
2 weeks is 14 days. sounds like more now doesnt it.
you dont know if your going to fail until you try.
you'll get it right if you believe in yourself enough.

[Mike321]

As the other have said 2 weeks is along time to go without cutting
If you've already achieved that, whats stopping you going for another 2 weeks
You've just gotta believe in yourself, I know its hard but if you really want to do it, you need to believe you can do it.
Theres no harm in trying it, even if you dont make it another 2 weeks, just try again

[xXdamienXx]

i'll try but ive already cut once 2day plus me having the urge to burn something (i'm a pyromaniac) probably won't help....

[UnknownError]

i'll try but ive already cut once 2day plus me having the urge to burn something (i'm a pyromaniac) probably won't help....

Keep trying to fight the urges.
You've cut, was it worth it?
I can tell that your going to say something like "It was for a while".
Cause its true.
But then it just hurts like Hell.

Stay strong mate, you can do without this shit.
If you need to talk just snd me a PM, I'll listen. :)
(And a little good reputation would help aswell. ;))
Stay strong, let me know how you feel tomorrow.

[BlackBetty]

Don't cut. I don't know how you're home life is, but nothing is worth cutting. If you ever need something, or someone, just drop me a VM.

You can do better than this, and be strong.

[xXdamienXx]

my urges are gnawing at me it is HELL!!! my sewing needle is in my hand and i just wanna scratch soo bad but i kno it'll hurt l8er on...i'm breaking down....

[Sith Lord 13]

You don't need it. You're stronger than your urges. Fight it. Don't give in.

[Nickk XD]

Cutting is an addiction, psychological...but still an addiction. Like any addiction, it is hard to overcome. Worse than gambling :D.

I know you'll want to continue cutting. You may have the urge for days. Just don't. It really is almost that simple. Nothing is going to happen if you don't cut. You aren't going to feel sick, die, or anything else. I'd remove any objects that start a cutting frenzy out of your immediate living space.

Another helpful tip is get a rubber band (A regular sized but thick one) and put it around your wrist. Every time you fill stressed, suicidal, anxious, nervous, etc. snap it 5 times. If 5 doesn't work, try 10. Be sure the rubber band you use is not small for your wrist...it should be relatively loose but to where it will not fall off.

This is very very helpful to many many people.

I am a student counselor (a student that counsels students) at my school and have found this trick extremely useful.

[xXdamienXx]

ive been trying the rubber band thing and it doesnt diminish the urge a bit but it does stop me from cutting....

[Apollyon]

i'm tired of all the stress and pain in my life i'm gonna buy some razor blades w/ my b-day money and cut my freakin' arms to ribbons...and i don't care WHO sees my cuts!!....

I used to cut. none stop. I finally got caught with 47 cuts on one arm and 33 on the other. I did it to relieve stress. Which i now regret. I got sent to councilor after councilor with the same thing being said. "You just want attention, or you want to feel the pain from the inside on the outside" which i realised was not the case. It was simply just for stress. I Was then sent to a mental hospital for a mental evaluation and they dismissed me which was a bad call to them because i kept doing it. I did it till i blacked out. and it hit me when i woke up with blood all over me. I have always regreted cutting. Because now everywhere i go, im not looked at for who i am. But the scars on my wrist. Its truly not worth it. and im now fighting 2 quit smoking cigarettes which i used to relieve stress. but found out i am a 80% chance of having Melanoma (Major form of skin cancer). You just have to look ahead in your life and think of the true important things in life.

Just stay strong dude and everything will work out.

[xXdamienXx]

i have mabye 9 new cuts on my left on my arm in total im seeing a counselor but it seems like he's bored w/ the case or me...I dunno....