Will you help me?

[ryker]

Hello to you all,
I am very new to this website and my name is Ryker. Well, I do not understand what sexual orientation I have:confused:. I am really attracted to my best friend, aswell who is a boy. But after reading some writing on here, I feel relieved that others have the thoughts same that I have. So, I do not now what I should do now to understand which orientation I have.

[CaptainObvious]

Hello to you all,
I am very new to this website and my name is Ryker. Well, I do not understand what sexual orientation I have:confused:. I am really attracted to my best friend, aswell who is a boy. But after reading some writing on here, I feel relieved that others have the thoughts same that I have. So, I do not now what I should do now to understand which orientation I have.

Are you sexually attracted to other boys? Are you sexually attracted to girls? At your age, it may be difficult to tell, since who you are attracted to can change rapidly during (especially early) puberty. Hormones and all that. I wouldn't worry about labelling yourself with an orientation. It's really not that important. You like who you like, label or no label, you know?

[ryker]

I like boys mostly. But I am only starting to begin puberty so I do not now. But should I just leave it the way it is.

[aerobooster]

You could be curious about other people like i am but i still fancy girls and want boys :) hope this helps, message me when you get enough posts

[Skeln]

Don't worry about it yet. Unless you have any emotional attractions then I would say you're curious but it's not for us to decide. As stated in prior posts, hormones can really screw with your head.

[ShatteredWings]

You're thirteen, which makes this more complicated.

Attraction to a male friend would make me think you're bi, or gay.

Do you like girls as anything beyond a friend?

[CaptainObvious]

I like boys mostly. But I am only starting to begin puberty so I do not now. But should I just leave it the way it is.

If you mostly like boys it is probable that you'll turn out to be bi or gay. But nothing is for certain this early in puberty. So relax, you don't need to label yourself.

[The Joker]

At your age, I thought I was straight, only liked girls. Now it's the opposite. Just wait, things can change.

[Titan]

Well you're orientation is told by your feelings towards one sex or both sexes. If you are attracted to the male sex then you are a homosexual, but if you are attracted to both the male and the female sex then you might be bisexual. But keep in mind that you have just began puberty and this could just be raging hormones. You might also just admire your friend which could be confused as feeling an attraction towards him. With whatever orientation you are it is who you are and don't let any other person change who you love.

[Nelson]

It could just be hormones. I only worked out i like guys alot more than girls (about 80/20).. I really regret "labelling" myself.. But yea.. Things can change.. Give it time man

[ryker]

Thank you much everybody. I believe I will wait for while and then I am going to see what orientation I have because it could alter by now

[ThomasB.]

Thank you much everybody. I believe I will wait for while and then I am going to see what orientation I have because it could alter by now
I think that's a good idea. Only time can tell I suppose!

[All The Small Things]

i think u might be bi but like the other sex less u will probley have a boyfiriend. Buy the way is your friend yannick gay/bi/str8.

[chrissm]

I agree with the others, give it more time and just stay cool and go with the flow. For you to be gay or bi you will need to feel that you could fall in love with another guy, not just be attracted to them.

[ryker]

I don't know what sexual orientation my friend has

[Andyli1995]

Yeah, I wouldn't worry too much because I have the same feelings too. Just label yourself as straight for the time being - I know what it's like, it's just hormones. Like one minute, you may be "hanging out" with a boy but one minute you may be "fancying" a girl, so my advice is just leave for the first 1 or 2 years of puberty.

[boy15]

i think youre bi, i have the same probleme as you, but only the time can tell :)

[Jimmy Page]

dont worry about that now.you have just started puberty.you will find out what you are sooner or later.when the time comes you will know what you are.

[teenboy93]

your curiosity is just spiking. 13 is the age puberty normally starts and it can be a confusing time.

[ryker]

I copy this from the blog!

" Hello, Tonight the school had a very big dance for all the students to celebrate the ending of the year. We all went, it was good fun. But, one bad thing happen is that my date left me at 9 because she was feeling the sick. I do not believe her. I was disappointed. I went outside to talk to the boys and I talked to Yannick for so long. Anyway, he said that girls were just a pain of life. So we both decided to cheer up and go back in and dance together. I really enjoyed it and maybe i think he has gay becuase slow songs came on and we still dance."

[ortmann123]

Hello to you all,
I am very new to this website and my name is Ryker. Well, I do not understand what sexual orientation I have:confused:. I am really attracted to my best friend, aswell who is a boy. But after reading some writing on here, I feel relieved that others have the thoughts same that I have. So, I do not now what I should do now to understand which orientation I have.

i think you should just wait, i had exactly the same problem at your age, but i waited to see what happend and no i dont have the feelings for my friend anymore

[obknobe]

It sounds like you have "found" each other. Don't put labels on yourself or anyone else. Be what you and feel what you feel. And if your friend shares it, then share the experience as fully as you both wish to. Don't rush and don't be afraid to try new things together. Life can be an exciting journey. . . enjoy every moment!

[that kid]

The joys of puberty and hormones... Just take everyone else's advice and don't rush into anything and wait until you know for sure.

[green day]

Ithink u r gay/bi mostly bi because u just begun puberty and if u r bi I think u will like the same sex more then the ohter I hope I helped bye I.

P.S. I am str8 veary currios just saying I think u r cute and hot.