my mum and nan...

[goneghost]

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[Maverick]

If you have your dad to turn to then I would seriously consider exploring that option. I'm sure he'd want to help you if you explain what's going on. Its not fair to live in misery like that but you don't have to live that way. If you can do something to help the situation then talk to your dad. You don't have to deal with this on your own.

[1_21Guns]

my dad was just like your mum. abusive past and everything. he verbally and emotionally abused me for as long as i can remember. eventually my mum left him and i thought i was free, which was when my mum started the emotional abuse too.
its hard to try and hold on when everything seems to be so badly against you.
if you can turn to your dad, i would. believe me in your case things should get better.
you shouldnt have to live like this hun, it's not right.
those words she says hurt. they always will hurt, the one person you love is hurting you. but at the end of the day she does still love you. it may not seem like it. but she does love you. good luck hun. PM me if you ever want to talk, i understand how you feel quite a bit.

[goneghost]

I don't really like to talk to my dad about things like this because hes disabled and any amount of stress and he seems to get ill and he looses his voice and his hearing and he just breaksdown..and also he needs my mum ,i cant do everything she does for him.
id be better of...he'd be better of if i just kept my mouth shut.

[1_21Guns]

I don't really like to talk to my dad about things like this because hes disabled and any amount of stress and he seems to get ill and he looses his voice and his hearing and he just breaksdown..and also he needs my mum ,i cant do everything she does for him.
id be better of...he'd be better of if i just kept my mouth shut.

do you have any councellors or anything you could talk to at school hun?

[goneghost]

No im home schooled,i don't have any friends to talk to either cause my mum made sure that i didn't see them again after i left public school.

[1_21Guns]

No im home schooled,i don't have any friends to talk to either cause my mum made sure that i didn't see them again after i left public school.

hun your in a tricky situation, and you cant really tell your father it seems.
just try to not let it all get to you too much, i know its hard but in the end you realise its just not worth your pain. whatever they say you are, your not.

[goneghost]

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[1_21Guns]

yeh i know i shouldent let it get to me.. but thats easier said than done,
also i did at one point consider telling my mums friend,my mums friend used to be a foster carer so i thought maybe she would understand a bit...but on the other hand she could stick up for my mum and say im lying so maybe not.

i know how you feel, it took me years before what my father said to me lost effect.
you do need to try and tell someone really hun, i know its not easy and its scary, but your life is just as important as everyone elses.

[goneghost]

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[1_21Guns]

yeh ok i think ill keep quiet until October at least so my sister doesent get stressed out (shes pregnant) ..maybe then ill tell someone.
thanks for the advice hun

okay hun, i hope your sisters pregnancy goes well and your okay till then,
PM me if you ever want to talk.

[goneghost]

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[minicoopkart]

same, I used to love my mom but now I hater her and think she's a bitch. But i don't know why