He told.

[Fiction]

I don't tell many people about my cutting. Only 4 people know and only 2 of those i actually told. I should say only 4 people knew, because now its 5. One of my closest friends told his gf. I kind of understand why he did it, she asked why he talked to me so much. I don't see any point in being annoyed with him but that doesn't change that i feel slightly betrayed and also very weird. It's weird that a girl i've never met, but probabaley will meet, knows that i cut. I work so hard to keep this a secret and i feel really insecure now. Like its only a matter of time before everyone knows. That girl will only ever think of now as "the girl that cuts". I jsut want to take it back. It always takes me a while to get used to someone new knowing. But when its someone i don't know, and had no control over them knowing, its even worse.

Sorry for the rant.

[Sachin]

I have no idea who you are and what kinda situations you're going through at the moment, but maybe if you STOPPED you wouldn't have to deal with the embarrassment of everyone "knowing"?

[UnknownError]

I totally disagree with Sachin. :|

Its not you fault that she knows. Maybe you should get to know her, hang around with her and ask her to keep it a secret. Good luck. x

[cassann08]

I have no idea who you are and what kinda situations you're going through at the moment, but maybe if you STOPPED you wouldn't have to deal with the embarrassment of everyone "knowing"?

From what I know, it's not something that you can just stop. It takes time to break a bad habit and cutting is, in hindsight, a bad habit. What I don't get is why people with nothing nice to say make smart arse comments that just make them look like a selfish individual?? Hmmm...point to ponder

[UnknownError]

I agree with Lucille. :)

[xgeekyrocksx]

yeah cutting isn't something you can "just stop" not straight away... i guess it makes things worse... you could talk to your friend..ask him to tell her its really secret and yeah , you could try and hang around with her... but only if you like her other wise it all gets a bit fake :/
its gonna be okay xxx

[Fiction]

I added her on fb and i've talked to her. Didn't mention anything about my cutting jsut talked. She seems nice enough. I've never met her but i might be in a few weeks. my friend wants me to meet her and i'm just hoping it won't be too awkward :/

[Mike321]

I know how you felt/feel when you found out he told someone else, apart from I had my secret told to about 20 different people.
But if she seems nice enough to talk to, hopefully she will be understanding about it and not judge you on it.
And if she doesnt bring it up when she talks to you maybe she isn't bothered by it?
I hope everything goes ok when you meet her
:) x

[1_21Guns]

I have no idea who you are and what kinda situations you're going through at the moment, but maybe if you STOPPED you wouldn't have to deal with the embarrassment of everyone "knowing"?

it's not so simple.


hun, at the end of the day she knows now, and theres nothing you can do to change that. hopefully she's not the type to judge and will accept that your not just the 'girl that cuts', because you aren't. your Kathy.
your friend must really trust his gf, so i don't think it's going to get out hun.
i know how you feel quite a bit, and i know its not nice. but it's done now.

[Truth]

Why's it matter? When I cut myself, one person saw it - everyone knew. People told me to stop being emo, and I just told them off. Most people just stayed away from the subject.

But, yes, try to be friends with her, so she'll hopefully not tell anyone. =)

[Fiction]

It matter cause i don't want anyone to know! I cut but i don't want to be known for being a cutter!

[MadManWithaBox]

Maybe you could look upon this as a mixed blessing? Sure, she told when you didn't want her to, but now people will find out. That seems like a bad thing, but it might be just the thing to get yourself the help necessary to stop. Having it out in the open is easier than having to hide scars and cuts. Trust me

[Fiction]

I don't want everyone to know. I really don'. I don't really want to stop either :/