hey is this normal

[jayjay13]

hi im Jayhan im male 13 going on to 14 and im just wondering about my sexuality i have never had a relationship but i have been tricked by girls in the past onlly to find out that i got used and stuff but now im wondering and i decided that i wanted to be straight/curious so i told my mum and dad and my mum freaked out and said i need to go see a doctor and talk about it and saying im making adult decisions and since then hasnt spoken with me thats 3 days and my dads just acting like it never happened but my main question is, is it normal for guys my age to be thinking and making decisions like that cause i feel it is but i dont know HELP!!! by the way plz list your gender and when or if you thought about sexuality

[Iron Man]

I am slightly confused with your story. What makes you curious?

[CuriousDestruction]

13 is young, 14 is young, 18 is young, 30 is young to label yourself with a definite sexuality. idk what your mom is like on the whole homosexuality issue but she sounds more freaked out that her little boy is growing up. sexuality is constantly changing, even with adults. my math teacher was a homophobe until she turned gay at 25 years old. you have plenty of time to discover your sexuality, but maybe it's something you need to do on your own, without your parents. it can be an important rite of passage. anyway, that's just my feeling

btw im a guy and as you can see i've thought about sexuality a great deal.

[Wonder.]

Do you WANT to be curious or ARE you curious?

Why be curious if you aren't already? Why not just wait until you are curious?

And also, don't talk to your parents about your sexuality until you're sure what it is.

[rlb3810]

Dude at your age it is better to just keep your thoughts inside your head except if you really feel like you need to tell someone somthing tell a friend that you are really close to and trust.

[jayjay13]

ok by the way i want to be curious but am afraid to sorry to be confusing but yea i guess all of you are right keep my thoughts to myself hmph! it sucks to be confused