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Judas
May 26th, 2010, 07:48 AM
heyy ppl.
im not like homophobic or have anything against gay ppl, but i just dont want to be gay myself. i dunno why.
but i always watch gay porn.
and when i see a barechested or naked guy, i cant help but look.
i get horny and erect at gay stuff.
i dont get as horny or erect at females.
but also:
i do find girls attractive
i like being with them
so what am i? gay? bi? str8?
also, can someone tell me what the term 'curious' means?
Kaius
May 26th, 2010, 07:52 AM
Puberty for Boys :arrow2: Teen Sexuality
Just because you like to watch gay porn doesn't necessarily mean you are gay. Many guys going through puberty get curious and experiment, but that in no way affects your sexuality unless your feelings towards guys are as strong as they are for girls, and vice versa. You're straight, just experimenting, its perfectly normal don't worry.
Curious is how it sounds lol, you're just curious to try different things really.
Kahn
May 26th, 2010, 08:35 AM
100% agree with Aaron right now. It's just curiosity. Being gay isn't something to be afraid of though, it's just your preference in sexuality. You will not be looked down upon by anyone just because of it.
aerobooster
May 26th, 2010, 09:47 AM
you could be bi or gay or just curious but it's probs the hormones
Harley Quinn
May 26th, 2010, 10:54 AM
heyy ppl.
im not like homophobic or have anything against gay ppl, but i just dont want to be gay myself. i dunno why.
but i always watch gay porn.
and when i see a barechested or naked guy, i cant help but look.
i get horny and erect at gay stuff.
i dont get as horny or erect at females.
but also:
i do find girls attractive
i like being with them
so what am i? gay? bi? str8?
also, can someone tell me what the term 'curious' means?
Hormones are crazy things, real crazy. It's puberty, everyone at one point in their lifes have had feelings for the same sex whether it be sexual, emotional ect ect. Bi-curious (or curious) is a term used to refer to someone who does not identify as bisexual or homosexual but feels or shows some curiosity in a relationship or sexual activity with someone of the same sex. The term can also apply to a person who generally identifies as homosexual but feels or shows some interest in having a relationship with someone of the opposite sex.
The term bi-curious implies that the individual has had no sexual experience—or very little - of that sort, but may continue to self-identify as bi-curious if they do not feel they have adequately (gave themselves enough time to) explored these feelings, or if they do not wish to identify as bisexual.
abcd920
May 26th, 2010, 06:30 PM
im the same... ur not alone =]
sooocrazzzy
May 27th, 2010, 06:00 PM
youre the only one who can say if you are or not.
Iron Man
May 27th, 2010, 06:28 PM
Are you physically AND emotionally attracted to males? If not, then you are not gay. Even with that, you can be bi. And curious is where you find the same sex attractive but normally not permanent.
CuriousDestruction
May 28th, 2010, 07:31 PM
you don't necessarily sound gay, more like a horny teenager. which is totally normal and to be expected. teenagers get turned on very easily, that is the definition of horny. teens get horny from everything, from people, to underwear, to crocodiles. teens are horny. don't put a label on yourself just because you like gay porn. tons of straight guys watch gay porn. wait till you are older, your hormones have calmed down and you've had some stable relationships.
ThomasB.
May 29th, 2010, 10:01 AM
"Curious - eager to learn or know; inquisitive." So yeah, thats what it means out of the dictionary. I would say that you are probably just curious. Only time can tell ;)
Titan
May 29th, 2010, 09:57 PM
Okay, you might be consider Bisexual if you have feeling for both sexes, but it could all change while you grow older.
As for the term curious. Curious is when a straight man or woman starts to question his or her sexuality because they might get an attraction to a particular person or group of people of the same sex.
joestephan
May 31st, 2010, 03:16 PM
it doesn;t mean your gay, just curious and horny
WaahZombie
June 1st, 2010, 08:39 PM
i feel the EXACT same way. its extremely annoying at times.
BlackBetty
June 1st, 2010, 09:13 PM
To be gay, you have to be emotioanlly attracted to guys. Not just there body, but emotionally attracted.
Anyone can be physically attracted to something or someone.
boy15
June 3rd, 2010, 07:09 PM
i think you are experimenting a bit but thats normal as teenie, so let se time let
Eskimo
June 3rd, 2010, 07:21 PM
I think your just sexually curious.
jdude
July 6th, 2010, 01:36 AM
curious or bi would be what i say you are
TheFame
July 6th, 2010, 08:18 PM
Happy to see many people feel the EXACTT same way as me! :D <3
Holly bare chested dudes make me go crazyyy
I think your curious. Anything can change in your years.
I hope i end up being Bi.
I rather be Bi than Gay or Straight
Music9
July 7th, 2010, 12:38 AM
As with a few other people, I have the same sort of thing! So you're definitely not alone. I would consider us curious, as other people have defined!
DanielBoy
August 4th, 2010, 07:42 PM
I feel the same way! :D
1_21Guns
August 4th, 2010, 10:02 PM
please do not bump threads which are over a month old :locked:
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