Is it okay?

[OnTheFritz]

Well I had my boyfriend over today and we did some...touching you see and we didnt do anything THAT bad no intercourse or anything no BJ's or nothing we just touched....Is that wrong?

[emt.Cam]

Everyone's response is going to be different hun. It's all based on your morals and beliefs. As long as you felt comfortable with what you did, then that's what matters.

[CaliKid24]

Yea it's not too bad. As long as ur not forced then it's alrite.

[GeneralCrash70]

-"as long as it's consentual."
-"I think it's consentual."
lol, pineapple express
and yes this post has to do with the thread; anything is okay as long as both of you consent to it...

[Michael52]

As long as u both were into it.... I think it's ok

[Strength]

how can that be perceived as wrong??? :confused:

[MyNameIsJack]

In my opinion, you shouldn't let him.. you're asking us if it's wrong and that means you're not feeling comfortable with it. You should always do what you think it's properly, you'd feel better. We all know when something it's not totally right or wrong. Take care, girls are special.. they have something that boys doesn't have.

[Hollywood]

how can that be perceived as wrong??? :confused:

Some people (such as the religious) aren't allowed to do anything romantic.

As long as your religious beliefs aren't stopping you and you are both happy with it (which it seems that you are) then there is no problem with it. There's nothing wrong with sexual activities either, as long as you wait until you are both ready and you use proper protection.

[OnTheFritz]

Thanks and just letting you know it was consensual on both ends

[Jenna.]

It just depends on your own beliefs and values (Not your parents'. What they consider wrong might be very different from what you consider wrong.) Most people wouldn't consider what you did to be "bad" though.

[josh93]

Its not bad unless you feel uncomfortbal with it.

[sara1220]

theres nothing wrong with it as long as your both comfortable with it

[Hanyo]

Good call Huascar.

Ashley, it sounds like you're not sure if it was right or wrong, which is why you posted and asked. It seems like you're feeling a little guilty, and looking for either support so you can feel ok about doing it again in the future or confirmation of your gut feeling so you know if you should draw the line or stop.

Hollywood/Tyler - That's funny! Religious people are totally allowed to be romantic. They may choose to avoid risque activities though because they want to stay true to their beliefs and values. True Christians avoid all sexual type activities before marriage though because in God's eyes, the only proper context for any kind of sexual activity is between a husband and his wife.

Even if you're not religious, there's a lot of benefits to avoiding that kind of activity; you're protected from disease, you'll have a good reputation/image, you don't have to worry about accidental pregnancy, and you're not at risk for the emotional pain that goes with losing your first lover if you and your boyfriend happen to break up...

And, for the record, there's tons of awesome ways to be romantic that don't involve naughty activities or touching. You can surprise each other with small creative gifts to show you're thinking about them, or try learn more about them and their family and try to do thoughtful things for them.

[dstnyisurs]

Well, what do YOU think?
If you think you're okay with touching and you're ready to touch with your boyfriend, then by all means, go for it. Don't worry about what we think.
Then again, on the flip side, if you think it's "bad" to do things to make you and your boyfriend feel good and you need validation from us whether it is good or bad, you may not really be ready to take more steps with him.
Try to think about what YOU are ready for, not what people think you're ready for or try to pressure you into.

[nhhssuperstar]

I agree with others that if you both wanted to do it then there is nothing wrong with it. Everyone at one time or another want to experiment

[Asylum]

honey thats up to you. Were you comfortble with it? if so and you were ok with it, then sure. if you felt like you need to wait, or you shouldn't have done that, or anyuthing along those lines, then no, your not ready wait. morally speaking religions say nohting about touching, it's up to your personal morals. no one hear can say it's bad or it's not, it's your choice

[DragonflyBec]

Thats not wrong in anyway. if this touching was consensual it seems like you two wanted to just explore and learn about eachothers bodies and reactions. If you ask this question "is it wrong?" maybe you should ask yourself what you felt during and after this touching? possibly talk about this with your BF. he may or may not feel the same feelings as you

xx

[josh93]

No it aint bad its just curiosity.

[Clawhammer]

In my opinion, you shouldn't let him.. you're asking us if it's wrong and that means you're not feeling comfortable with it. You should always do what you think it's properly, you'd feel better. We all know when something it's not totally right or wrong. Take care, girls are special.. they have something that boys doesn't have.

This pretty much sums up what I think. My being a Christian, I have different beliefs on these things than most, but just be careful. Wait till you're sure it's the right person and the right time. You might regret it later.

[Dan_UK]

Take care, girls are special.. they have something that boys doesn't have.


Like the ability to make sense? :P

[just-another-guy]

just always stick with what you are comfortable with that's whats most important.

[kalchak1569]

Its not bad at all. If you are having fun doing that together, than it cant be bad :P