View Full Version : i am intrested to no have u experinced homophobia in the street
allsoulsareblack
May 24th, 2010, 06:29 PM
i wanted to no because me and my boyfriend have been advised buy his pernts to not snog not kiss and not to hold hands in public we have anyway since most people didnt reli care but there were a few who were reli abuseive and horrible u would of thought we killed this guys dog or summet we did nothing wrong he just started talkin some bull how all gays are wrong and yada yada yada has anyone else experinced this and if so what can we do we want to be safe but we are just a normal couple straight couples dont have to worry bout geting of in public so why sshould we be worryed bout geting beaten up or even worse
Nelson
May 24th, 2010, 06:44 PM
Hell yes, I cant go into my local shops without someone yelling out "faggot", "gay c*nt" and so on. It sucks
MichaelAdams1993
May 24th, 2010, 06:44 PM
It is all location specific. Some areas will be more accepting than others. Where I am at I have walked around holding hands with my ex-boyfriend and didn't really have any problems but you have to be careful. Those who are homophobic can get extremely violent at times depending on how deeply they feel about the issue. There is really no way to know how each person will react. If you see someone who is uncomfortable with it then move on, if you see someone who is acting up about it, it may be in your best interest for both you and your boyfriend to stop what you are doing in order to calm the person and then move to a different location, you don't want to get involved in anything violent. Unfortunaly the world has not COMPLETELY acceptetd homosexuals and the like of all things different, hopefully that will not always be the case...
CuriousDestruction
May 24th, 2010, 09:05 PM
i see it every day where i live. everytime someone says "that's so gay" i wanna vomit. it's a crappy world we live in sometimes.
penguin13
May 25th, 2010, 04:12 PM
Well, no not when I'm alone. But when I'm with my boyfriend (and we look like we're together) then, yes, all the time. But I pay no pass to it, either does he.
ThomasB.
May 25th, 2010, 04:32 PM
i see it every day where i live. everytime someone says "that's so gay" i wanna vomit. it's a crappy world we live in sometimes.
I feel the same way - My 'friends' say it all the time and it really pisses me off!! ;)
beedubs
May 25th, 2010, 08:22 PM
i feel it all matters on where you are. me and my boyfriend do it all the time and we get nothing. well sometimes get looks, but im not gunna let someone looking at me hurt me. i think its alot more accepted where i live, but maybe in other areas its not. just be careful and be aware of your surroundings. like michael said if someone is acting up just stop and get away. besides that dont let looks or words crush you.
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