Is there a look.?

[jaydawg729]

some girl in my school was able to figure out that I was bi because of the way i looked.
has anyone ever said something like this to you? is there a look for bi's cause i dress like any other person and i don't really stand out.
thank you

[Wonder.]

It had to be a guess or assumption. There is no way to tell someone's sexuality by the way they look unless you wore a shirt that said "I'm bi" in huge letters.

[nick]

Some guys might look gay if they are the flamer type, but I dont really think there's a bi look.

[jaydawg729]

it just really creeped me out when she told me

[CuriousDestruction]

a lot of times sexuality can reflect our attitudes, fashion choices, and behavior. and sometimes sexuality has no affect on any of those. a lot of it comes from the stereotypically gay/dyke look depending on your sex.

[Zazu]

Some guys might look gay if they are the flamer type, but I dont really think there's a bi look.

I second this.

[Scarface]

Well unless you have a bit of flamboyance it really isn't apparent.

[wtrocks]

Some guys might look gay if they are the flamer type, but I dont really think there's a bi look.

^^^ There's an 8th grader at my school, and he's a total flamerrrr. It's funny and creepy at the same time....

And I believe some people would call that a "Gaydar" =P

[jaydawg729]

all of the answer include the way you act/ i'm quiet most of the time and have a deep voice. still don't get why i look bi

[hotjosh94]

i look gay i get told a lot its cuz i act gay but im not i walk like i am i lean to one side like a gilr an di stand like one but im not gay so there is a look but not a strong one

[Skeln]

Well if you pay attention to the differences between physical behaviors of boys and girls, you'll see that girls and guys vary alot. So, when people see a guy or a girl with the opposite physical behaviors (way they walk/stand) they think of the opposite sex. So a guy walking like a girl is likely to be seen as gay. Also, tight pants and v-necks are not much help either. But what others say doesn't really matter, does it?

[boy15]

some people tell this to a boy of my class (i like him very much) and to me, but i dont know if hes bi too.

[Eskimo]

It could just be your mannerisms or she caught you staring at another boy or something.

[Kitty Purry]

Well if your flamboyant than that could scream BI/GAY! but other than that there's not a bisexual look:).

[teenboy93]

Some guys might look gay if they are the flamer type, but I dont really think there's a bi look.



im sorry but flamer isnot an appropriate term. i think it is offensive to the homosexual people. thank you.

[Luna892]

Wel we used to be able to sterotype gays and as we're all finding it harder identifying gays even now I doubt anyway is able to say whether you look bi ... :D

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