Tired

[green]

So my girlfriend and I when we hang out at school were fine and we talk. But take it to us at my house and itskinda like " what do you wanna do?" dunno. Then we sit there for 10 minutes like not talking. What am I supposed to do? Like were so awkward that I'm thinking of just stopping the whole thing. Help me!

[Scarface]

You could start off by getting to know her better. Ask her what she likes to do, sports, art, clothes. Express an interest in her and you might be able to find some common interests. Instead of going to your house why don't you go out somewhere get some coffee or take her somewhere she might enjoy Just show her that you care and are interested and I think things will get better. Even just going for a walk and having small talk. It's the little things that count sometimes. Good luck. If you ever need someone to talk to I'm always here, shoot me VM anytime

[Blood]

Lol, I was just like this with a past boyfriend. My only advice to you is that you should get to know her better. It's as simple as that buddy.

[ILOVEYOU]

make her laugh, see a movie together, umm.. or just talk about simple things, like "oh i like your hair today".. "how did you make it like that?".. you know just Talk.. and if you like turn it into some romantic or like compliment her.. then.. maybe you can turn it into a lovely day, kiss her or something. and the point is "Entertain Her, She'll Entertain You" :P. Good luck!

[ExEmoBlood]

If you take her to your house, then you might be giving her the impression that you want something to happen; and that may make her feel awkward and afraid to talk.

Pay attention to little things she says in school. You may get a hint as to where she likes to hang out when not in school. If you figure out where she might like to go, then take her there to hang out. I garuntee you that she'll be a little surprised and/or smiling her ass off.

Just to try and open up a conversation you can state something that you've thought about. Don't worry about how random it may seem. For example: "Ever wondered how people come up with names for things?" She may say yes, she may say no. You can play off of it either way. If she says yes, then you figure out what to say next. If she says no... Just chuckle at and smile at her and say something like "I guess I'm just weird, then." You'll probably get a "No, you're not." Follow up with a "You don't think so? I just asked a completely random question, and you don't think I'm weird?"
You'll get somewhere with her either way. The one thing that we are afraid of is to speak out thoughts. Get over that, and everything will open up.

((I use to be a HUGE flirt... Still am, somewhat.))

[Jess]

talk to her, get to know her :)

[May-]

Ask her where she'd like to go, a place she really likes, then ask why does she like to go there and what would make it even better. Then you're getting to know her. Talk about music, what type of music does she like? Go find similar artists and talk about it. Ask her about her family - brothers, sisters, cousins -, what did she like to do when she was younger..
I mean, there's a lot to talk about, you'll always find something if you really want to ;)

[javs262]

pull out monopoly... if you and her decide to make sexy time, then change the payment methods around, if you know what i mean ;)

if you dont know what i mean: sexual favors (Be safe i guess)

[ExEmoBlood]

pull out monopoly... if you and her decide to make sexy time, then change the payment methods around, if you know what i mean ;)

if you dont know what i mean: sexual favors (Be safe i guess)


Ye-no. Don't do that unless you're a good bit into your relationship.

And he asked for help on TALKING to his GF; not sexual games.

[javs262]

Ye-no. Don't do that unless you're a good bit into your relationship.

And he asked for help on TALKING to his GF; not sexual games.

well, i meant it like play monopoly normally, the sexy time part was optional. talking is easy when your at a playground, so maybe you could find a playground near ur house and just chill on the swings

[ThomasB.]

Just get to know her better, study her personality! Its like trying to know how to do math without reading the book first!

[xRAPiiDG4MERx]

watch a movie, about half way through the film, prefferably a horror as u want her to move over to you, and then strech and put your arm around her, ask her if its okay, if she says yes, UR IN :P, if not say sorry, and wait till the next time, keep doing this everytime u watch a movie, and eventually she wil either tell u to stop or ask u while your doing it. just reply with 'i really like you, but im not good with words' or something like that. good luck boys and girls