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Eagle1
May 23rd, 2010, 10:11 PM
Theres this girl i like but were both in the police explorers and officially we are not supposed to date but our leaders have made an exception for another couple. But anyway here is the true problem not only is she a year older than me (and liked to announce it alot:rolleyes:) but at the end of next school year (her senior year) she will be moving to Arizona to live with her sister and go to college.
Is it worth asking my advisors if it is ok, then IF they say yes is it worth possibly being rejected; or if she says yes is it worth even getting in a relationship for a year only to be heartbroken when she leaves?:?2:

please give intelligent replies guys, thanks

Scarface
May 24th, 2010, 02:06 AM
I don't think that this is such a good idea. First of all if you know she's going to be leaving in a year and knowing the process that you will have to go through to ask her out and having to accept that she will have to leave and thus be heartbroken is it really worth taking that risk? Now if she asks you out and then you two go to them and ask for permission that is a different story. This is kind of tough because you like her, but you know she will have to leave.

I think you should really weigh things out and be sure this is what you want before making any decision. Find out if she has the same feelings for you as well. Good luck I hope this helps.

Eagle1
May 27th, 2010, 02:22 AM
thanks for the advice Ronnie :-)