I need some advice on this girl I like.

[xCIRESMx]

Okay so there's this girl at my school that I like and I don't know how to apporach her. I added her on FB and I really wanna start talking to her but I'm fucking scared to. She's a senior and I'm a junior btw. I feel hella stupid tho cos I added her and don't even talk to her. I would talk to her but I'm afraid she doesn't even wanna talk to me back. I like her but I'm trying to not make it look like I'm trying to get at her, like just wanna be friends kind of thing ya knoww? Lime I hella wanna ask her to chill one day but too scared. I'm so scared that I can't even say Hi when I see her, I just look the other way to try to avoid her. I feel like things are super awkward now that I added her. Idk, I need help. Where do I go from here? Someone give me advice. Anything will help. Thankss.

[Hollywood]

If you feel like you want to talk to her, then the only thing you can do is, well, talk to her. Start off with IMs and e-mails and get to know her a bit more. After you get to know her interests, it should be easier to talk to her, and I'm talking from experience.

Once you break the ice, it's smooth sailing, you just have to break it first. Whether it's on Facebook or in real life, if you want to talk to her, the ice has to be broken. Who knows, after you get to know her, you may not even like her in that way any more.

Basically, what I'm saying is, there's no way to beat around the bush. You just have to take a deep breath, go over, and say hi. That's all you can do. Just talking to her won't make anyone suspect you like her, unless you act too nervous and such. Just play it cool and act like you are best friends already and it will go fine.

I know these kind of things can be tough, best of luck.

[xCIRESMx]

Thanks!!

[Art_dude]

Well said Tyler! There really isn't anyway to beat around the bush. You have to break the ice somehow,whether it be through facebook or real life. And as soon as you do, it's not nearly as frightening as it seems now. Take a deep breath, get over that initial fear, and you will be amazed at how easily small talk really comes.

[AllThatIsLeft]

Truth is, if you want to get anywhere, you need to get some guts and try talking to her. She's not going to instantly reject you if you're friendly.

Start with something light and chill. Like if she knows who you are, or that she seemed pretty cool, so you added her....

Don't be scared. what's the worse that could happen?

As long as you don't come out too strongly, everything should be fine. Once the ice is broken, you'll know exactly what to do.

[xCIRESMx]

Thanks so much guys. That really helped.