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UnknownError
May 21st, 2010, 02:14 AM
I am sick of people calling me a goth or a emo or whatever else they call me behind my back.
They don't even know what a emo is. A emo to them is "a idiot who cries all day and slits his wrists while wearing stupid black clothes." Thats the reply I got when I asked someone what a emo was.
My school is very stereotype.
There is the jock, geeks, normal people, popular people and me.
I have friends in each of those groups but I don't fit in with any of the groups.
I am just fed up with cutting gestures whenever I walk past.
I haven't even properly cut deep for a year.
Its just been small things with one exception
Its just so annoying.
Sorry, I just needed to vent a little.
ExEmoBlood
May 21st, 2010, 02:25 AM
Vent away.
But why do you care?
UnknownError
May 21st, 2010, 02:28 AM
Vent away.
But why do you care?
I don't know. Its just so annoying and makes me so angry. Its this thats driving me to SH again.
ExEmoBlood
May 21st, 2010, 02:34 AM
You don't know why you care, but yet it angers you... Don't you find that sounding somewhat confusing?
Ok, ok. Let's put it like this: Do the people that talk shit about you mean anything to you? Are they important to your life?
UnknownError
May 21st, 2010, 12:30 PM
Well, I wouldn't say they are close friends, a few are friends, even though they talk about me.
The rest are just idiots.
Magus
May 21st, 2010, 12:54 PM
Educate them by telling them that 'emo' is a frichken Sub-Culture.
~Your Daily RPGer, DDX.
UnknownError
May 21st, 2010, 01:06 PM
LOL, good idea. :P
misery_business
May 21st, 2010, 02:18 PM
Just try to ignore them, they are all ignorant people who don't understand anything! This used to happen to me untill they saw it didn't bother me anymore, well it did a little but all those haters also made me realize who my true friends are. Think about it, your always going to have a friend :)
UnknownError
May 21st, 2010, 02:52 PM
Just try to ignore them, they are all ignorant people who don't understand anything! This used to happen to me untill they saw it didn't bother me anymore, well it did a little but all those haters also made me realize who my true friends are. Think about it, your always going to have a friend :)
True, thanks. :)
xXdamienXx
May 21st, 2010, 07:41 PM
i understand your frustration and no being part of a sub-culture does not dictate if U cut (goth emo etc...) im a goth but me being goth has nothing to do w/ me cutting but all that aside I can understand your frustration....
Magus
May 22nd, 2010, 03:24 PM
Did you educate them? You better do that. Try compiling some articles on Sub-Culture, sub-culture of Emo back in the 80s and so on. Till you get what you need and show'em what you know.
UnknownError
May 22nd, 2010, 03:34 PM
Did you educate them? You better do that. Try compiling some articles on Sub-Culture, sub-culture of Emo back in the 80s and so on. Till you get what you need and show'em what you know.
Im going to on Monday. I've been on wikipedia alot on sub-culture pages and that. I've actually dicovered I fit in with the "Otaku" sub-culture, but there is only one other person in the school that is a Otaku.
Fiction
May 23rd, 2010, 02:45 PM
Why did you let everyone in your school know you self harm? I get emo jokes directed at me all the time at school even though only 2 of them know i cut! I know its anoying but you really do jsut have to ignore it :/
UnknownError
May 23rd, 2010, 02:57 PM
I told 3 people, I told nobody else. Obviously at least 1 of those 3 people is bitching about me, which is a very high chance because I've fell out with one of them.
Fiction
May 23rd, 2010, 04:40 PM
Aww that sucks :( Thats like my worst fear of happeneing :(
ExEmoBlood
May 24th, 2010, 09:11 AM
Did you educate them? You better do that. Try compiling some articles on Sub-Culture, sub-culture of Emo back in the 80s and so on. Till you get what you need and show'em what you know.
It's different in today's society. They won't see the relevance.
UnknownError
May 24th, 2010, 10:37 AM
Did you educate them? You better do that. Try compiling some articles on Sub-Culture, sub-culture of Emo back in the 80s and so on. Till you get what you need and show'em what you know.
LOL, they were just like "Oooohkaay...?" I kinda know they wouldn't give a fuck about what I would say.
Magus
May 24th, 2010, 11:58 AM
LOL, they were just like "Oooohkaay...?" I kinda know they wouldn't give a fuck about what I would say.
That concludes to something: You are surrounded by inconsiderate idiots.
UnknownError
May 24th, 2010, 12:10 PM
That concludes to something: You are surrounded by inconsiderate idiots.
Yeah, I had noticed... :P
1_21Guns
May 24th, 2010, 04:51 PM
they dont even know what the hell they're mocking, so dont even care.
because its not worth the upset, why should you let thier childish and niave remarks hurt you?
a lot of teens are very sterotypical on things like this, things they dont understand.
reality of it is
not every person who cuts is emo, and not every emo cuts.
its all petty sterotypes that arent even worth getting upset over.
it winds me up when people do this too, because they dont understand, and show no will to understand.
which is exactly why they're not worth it.
let em say what they like hun, they dont know what they're chatting.
dstnyisurs
May 24th, 2010, 08:03 PM
Ignore, ignore, ignore. By responding to it, you awknolage(sp) 'emo' as an existing thing. The very term emo is barely existant, it's just a subculture of the fake and the needy.
By being strong, you deny them the option to hurt you. You get to decide what and who gets to you, and they do you not deserve the privledge of mattering in your life.
Reacting to them negativly gives them the fix they need from mindlessly hurting someone's feelings, but by being strong and diplomatic you force them to think while developing your own shell, your own confidence.
It's hard, but if you can ignore insults and learn to be gracious to even those who hurt you, you'll gain the respect of your peers.
UnknownError
May 25th, 2010, 01:24 PM
Ignore, ignore, ignore. By responding to it, you awknolage(sp) 'emo' as an existing thing. The very term emo is barely existant, it's just a subculture of the fake and the needy.
By being strong, you deny them the option to hurt you. You get to decide what and who gets to you, and they do you not deserve the privledge of mattering in your life.
Reacting to them negativly gives them the fix they need from mindlessly hurting someone's feelings, but by being strong and diplomatic you force them to think while developing your own shell, your own confidence.
It's hard, but if you can ignore insults and learn to be gracious to even those who hurt you, you'll gain the respect of your peers.
Thanks. I try to ignore them but they never stop.
Its like a never ending train of abuse.
Today I was sitting, I had a ruler in my hand and the way my hands where the ruler was on my wrist so they thought I was trying to saw my hand off!
That got them started on the shit for today.
I try not to react much but I get so pissed I told them to fuck off which made it worst.
they dont even know what the hell they're mocking, so dont even care.
because its not worth the upset, why should you let thier childish and niave remarks hurt you?
a lot of teens are very sterotypical on things like this, things they dont understand.
reality of it is
not every person who cuts is emo, and not every emo cuts.
its all petty sterotypes that arent even worth getting upset over.
it winds me up when people do this too, because they dont understand, and show no will to understand.
which is exactly why they're not worth it.
let em say what they like hun, they dont know what they're chatting.
[I]Thanks. I know that not every emo cuts and not everyone who cuts is emo.
I try to explain that to them but they are thick and don't give a damn.
All they care about is themself and their gf/bf.
Anyone else to them is a peice of dirt. They even treat each other like crap, although they are all mates.
Thing is when they do it to each other theyjoke.
Its never a joke when they do it to me.
I try to not get wind up but eventually I just crack and get in a rage, which is what they want.
1_21Guns
May 25th, 2010, 01:37 PM
[I]Thanks. I know that not every emo cuts and not everyone who cuts is emo.
I try to explain that to them but they are thick and don't give a damn.
All they care about is themself and their gf/bf.
Anyone else to them is a peice of dirt. They even treat each other like crap, although they are all mates.
Thing is when they do it to each other theyjoke.
Its never a joke when they do it to me.
I try to not get wind up but eventually I just crack and get in a rage, which is what they want.
don't even waste your breath. just walk away and show them you couldnt care less.
i'm going to guess its the popular kids that are doing this?
a friends dad said that they're only has high up that popularity scale as you put them.
and that's really true.
they're just horrible people who cant see past thier own ego.
i used to get bullied for different reasons and get told to ignore it, and i couldn't. i know its not easy. but trust me, when you do manage it, they get bored.
it's just thier pathetic lives aren't entertaining so they have to make someone elses hell.
UnknownError
May 25th, 2010, 02:38 PM
don't even waste your breath. just walk away and show them you couldnt care less.
I'm going to guess its the popular kids that are doing this?
You guessed correctly.
a friends dad said that they're only has high up that popularity scale as you put them.
It hard NOT to class them as popular.
and that's really true.
they're just horrible people who cant see past thier own ego.
i used to get bullied for different reasons and get told to ignore it, and i couldn't. i know its not easy. but trust me, when you do manage it, they get bored.
it's just thier pathetic lives aren't entertaining so they have to make someone elses hell.
True, thanks. I try to ignore it like I said, and Im goign to keep trying.
1_21Guns
May 25th, 2010, 02:42 PM
You guessed correctly.
typical...
It hard NOT to class them as popular.
yeah i know. they know exactly where their place is to everyone and they sure as hell show it.
True, thanks. I try to ignore it like I said, and Im goign to keep trying.
welcome hun, and good luck. they're just assholes who dont deserve your pain. :)
UnknownError
May 25th, 2010, 02:47 PM
welcome hun, and good luck. they're just assholes who dont deserve your pain. :)
Im just waiting for them to have problems... :P
Oh and sorry, I double posted on your profile by accident. ;)
1_21Guns
May 25th, 2010, 02:49 PM
Im just waiting for them to have problems... :P
Oh and sorry, I double posted on your profile by accident. ;)
believe me, when people like them have problems and they're sat there crying over them, you get some sick kind of amusement out of the situation :D
and it's okay :)
UnknownError
May 25th, 2010, 03:09 PM
Question: What happens if you cut your veins?
I was sitting in class after gym and my veins were sticking out more than normal and I kept having visions of cutting them. But everyone keeps saying I will die.
And and don't worry, Im not going to do it, just want to know what will happen.
1_21Guns
May 25th, 2010, 03:11 PM
Question: What happens if you cut your veins?
I was sitting in class after gym and my veins were sticking out more than normal and I kept having visions of cutting them. But everyone keeps saying I will die.
And and don't worry, Im not going to do it, just want to know what will happen.
they're right to say you most probably will die.
they carry the blood around your body and are not to be cut.
blood will start spurting out and you'll most probably feel very suddenly light headed.
never do it. chances are you will die.
UnknownError
May 25th, 2010, 03:13 PM
they're right to say you most probably will die.
they carry the blood around your body and are not to be cut.
blood will start spurting out and you'll most probably feel very suddenly light headed.
never do it. chances are you will die.
Okay thanks. :)
canyon
May 29th, 2011, 04:36 PM
I am sick of people calling me a goth or a emo or whatever else they call me behind my back.
They don't even know what a emo is. A emo to them is "a idiot who cries all day and slits his wrists while wearing stupid black clothes." Thats the reply I got when I asked someone what a emo was.
My school is very stereotype.
There is the jock, geeks, normal people, popular people and me.
I have friends in each of those groups but I don't fit in with any of the groups.
I am just fed up with cutting gestures whenever I walk past.
I haven't even properly cut deep for a year.
Its just been small things with one exception
Its just so annoying.
Sorry, I just needed to vent a little.
So, really you're just mad that people are calling you a name that fits your description? You said it yourself, you haven't cut 'properly' in a year. Thing is, you still do. So don't go getting mad at the world just because you fit the description that YOU YOURSELF supplied for this 'rant'...
ShatteredWings
May 29th, 2011, 06:26 PM
This is from 2010, please check post dates.
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