Gfs family

[xhelgrindx]

K so idk if this should go here or the white padded room. So my gf has grown up in a christian household. Her family and her moved to my city and her father is the pastor of the church now. So for example for today he asked my gf to do something for him and she said ok whatever ok and he started cussing her out and shit. Please tell me if this is not messed up? She is the sweetest most wonderful girl and both of her parents treat her like shit. She is very nice girl and she loves her family very much. Idk what i can do i want to do something. He acts like the nicest guy at church and so does her mom but when they get home its like they're different people. I just don't even know what to say I'm just disgusted. My gf doesn't know what to do. It crossed her mind today to step in front of a car. She feels like whatever she does is not good enough for her parents. Idk what i should do. Is there anything i can do. Is there anything she can do. I love her and i hate seeing her like this. I could keep on going on and on but i think ill stop there.

[Scarface]

Sounds like verbal abuse. She also sounds like she is desperately seeking her parents approval which drives her to try harder and take every little bit of ridicule and swallow her feelings. You need to talk to her and explain to her that this isn't right, that they shouldn't talk to her that way it's just not normal. You can't let this go on especially since you stated that she has wanted to step out in front of a car. It needs to stop you should be straight forward with her. I hope everything works out. If you need someone to talk to send me a Vm anytime. I'm always here

[xhelgrindx]

They aren't always like this though. They are good people but they just explode and take it out on her. So you would consider this verbal abuse?