Dreams

[AlwaysConfused]

Ok lately ive been having really weird dreams. dreams about each sexuality and somehow i am involved. the first dream i eva got about sexuality was centered around gay or homosexuality and it involved a few of my closest guys friends that i like to joke around with alot. ever since that dream ive been uncomfortable around some of these guys. the next dream involved me and some girl we didnt get involved in any intercourse but it was clear that i wasnt gay. and then the last dream which i had a few nites ago involved me, a girl i knew and some guy. so thats the bi dream. im really confused now cuz its like hmmm i hav no clu wat the heck i am now! i thought dreams interpreted or helped us solve our feelings toward another. and my dreams are very clear when it comes down to this sort of stuff but as of now im clouded. i havent the slightest clue wat to do.....HELP!

[PatrickZii]

Dude. Dreams are NOT and indication of sexuality. If you know you are/aren't interested in guys - don't let a dream worry you. It happens more than people like to admit to the straight crowd.

[AlwaysConfused]

Dude. Dreams are NOT and indication of sexuality. If you know you are/aren't interested in guys - don't let a dream worry you. It happens more than people like to admit to the straight crowd.

ok but im not necessarily sayin dat it indicates my sexuality im asking why do u think im having thse dreams?

[Aspiringanonymous]

It's difficult to say for sure why they have been occurring - I have my share of strange and concerning dreams as well. Just remember that a dream is just a dream, oftentimes dream concepts do not directly represent concrete ideas anyway.

Be confident with your own identity. Many things encountered in our experience of life will appear to make no sense, and that is precisely what they are - absurd. Over time, one will learn to distinguish between what is necessary and worthy of contemplation, versus what should be better acknowledged as is.

[AlwaysConfused]

thx Krezlyn

[Dunce]

Having a dream about having sex with the same sex doesnt mean you're gay. In your case it can mean you are embracing your masculine side. I hear that said alot.

[AlwaysConfused]

Having a dream about having sex with the same sex doesnt mean you're gay. In your case it can mean you are embracing your masculine side. I hear that said alot.

lol embracing ur masculine side? sounds very deep. could u explain tho?

[ThomasB.]

You can't really explain why you have dreams like this, its just what you're thinking about. But dreams don't reflect your sexuality. Remember dreams aren't real! ;)

[Hanyo]

I've had my share of weird/disturbing dreams... don't worry about it too much.

You have dreams for a lot of different reasons, sometimes its just your brain processing the day's events, or sometimes there's something your mind is trying to work out, and a dream is sort of one way that it tries sort out thoughts, or sometimes you just have really weird out there dreams that have no relation to anything about you. They don't always have meaning.

In your case though based on the content and your age, I'd say your brain might be loaded up with hormones and stuff and is trying to make sense of your sexual identity. Media has a lot of content about sexuality, so with the various options available, your brain seems like its trying to sort out what it wants, and the dreams are like test-scenarios, where your brain is trying to figure out what it likes.

I would say, the dream about your guy friends was testing the gay option. Don't worry, it doesn't mean your guy friends want you and you just didn't notice it until your dream, so you should go ahead and feel safe around them again.

The girl dream was the straight option of course, and the threesome depending on the content could have been bi as you say, or might be testing the idea of group sex or both...

So the fact that you had these dreams doesn't mean anything about what your orientation is, its probably just your brain running simulations trying to find answers. Your orientation is what you choose it to be, so although dreams can be unsettling sometimes, don't let it bother you too much. Hope that helps.

[AlwaysConfused]

thx. i now know that my dreams dnt determine sexuality but check dis out i had a weird dream about me and one of my guy friends and later on that day it happnd. Now u cnt tell me thats not weird at all!!!

[Hanyo]

Dreams are sometimes weird like that. Someone I know has also had a few dreams that later actually happened. But don't think about it too much, its not like dreams can predict what will happen in the future.

[AlwaysConfused]

i kno they cant predict future things but it is weird tho if u think about it

[BlackBetty]

Dreams are nothing. They tell you nothing. Only you can descide about what you like, and what you're attracted to.

[Lord_Cosby 13]

Dreams are rarely as straightforward as they seem. It probably has nothing to do with your sexual orientation,although I'm not saying for sure that it doesn't.